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calling them by a nickname because you don't remember their character name but don't want to break immersion

[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 57 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Calling them by their class because you don't remember either

[–] sorghum@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago

I always revert to calling them by their race/ancestry or using racial traits like long ears for elves. It makes playing old characters more authentic, lol.

[–] poVoq@slrpnk.net 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, thats how most online gaming works 🤷

[–] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I just bluescreen though.

I play BG3 with a couple people that I met here on Lemmy and I know their real names. I call them by their real names. We all do. But the second BG3 starts I just blank out. Last week we were playing Peak and I could not remember one of their names for the fucking life of me and kept calling them some different nickname based off of their username.

[–] UnRelatedBurner@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago

let's hope they don't follow your profile :p

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago

I was in a party where one of the members was a trans woman (abt 2 years in) and her DND name became her actual name, she was testing it out with us 🥰

[–] Atlas48@ttrpg.network 9 points 2 weeks ago

I personally refer to the characters as seperate entities, directly.

[–] hedgehogging_the_bed@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago

Air. I ask you to ponder this.

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Ohh, I've been playing d&d with my coworkers this whole time (also assigning them fairly shitty characters).

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

Stage IV: Calling them by their character's name cause egg.

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 2 weeks ago

I forgot their character names, so I just give them nicknames. The power of playing a dumb character.

[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

There was a player in my group who's character name and real name were fairly similar, so I ended up calling him his character's name a lot. Now he has a new character and I keep calling him by the old character's name by mistake

[–] Iunnrais@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I dm’d a steady group at my FLGS for a couple years with people I didn’t already know. It took an embarrassingly long time to learn some of their real names. Definitely that last one for me.