Sounds like you got what you wished for...
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You:
- Don't like texting with them
- Don't like talking on the phone with them
- Don't like hanging out with them
- Don't care about the things they like, only that they like what you like (from you other post)
- Don't want them to take you away from your games
- Don't want them to break up with you because you "need" them
So...what do you even like about them?
Whether it's intentional or not, this sounds extremely manipulative. You haven't said a single thing that gives the impression that this is somebody you actually care about. You're using them as an accessory. Someone you can fall back to when you're not binge gaming in fear of being truly alone.
I think you need to revisit your priorities in life. You don't work, you don't put effort into maintaining personal relationships, and you escape reality by gaming your days away. I don't think you're ready to commit to a relationship because I don't think you are even capable of caring for yourself at this moment.
Being extremely introverted is one thing. This is just being selfish. Again - intentional or not.
The expanded lore on this is insane
The expanded lore is actually kind of relieving because it makes me think that this is most likely just a troll. Anyone who is actually that self absorbed wouldn't keep posting this long and taking the flack.
I would interpret that as a
"Leave me alone I'm not interested"
Maybe it's just how I view things, but you realize every relationship ends in either break up or marriage? Like I'm engaged and 95% of my time with my partner is just casual hanging out. I would be distraught if I could only see them when were on a date.
You need to have a better conversation with him.
my girlfriend also does not like texting or calling, but if i got this message, i might think you didn't want to hang out with me at all or do anything with me. my girlfriend and i still hang out sometimes, but i dunno...
Sounds like she's not that into you but I can't say for sure