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[–] PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de 137 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I thought it was gonna be 3-4 times a day, but in a week? Those are rookie numbers

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 1 year ago

their problem is that they're a god damn prude, only 4 times per week? call the pope we have a new patron saint

[–] Neato@kbin.social 110 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well, femboys are men who dress feminine. Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men? Because you can certainly be attracted to women with penises (trans women) and be straight and be attracted to feminine-presenting men and be gay.

Personally I think you should just embrace whatever you find attractive and not worry about the sexuality labels. But I know not every society allows just permissive views.

[–] azertyfun@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does that mean you're attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they're men?

yes

More seriously, in my experience androgynous/GNC features are widely considered attractive in bisexual circles because they combine attractive features of multiple genders, which is at least twice as many attractive things.

However someone discovering themselves as "not straight" might not have enough understanding of the relationship between gender and attraction to answer your question.
In my case as I hit puberty I realized I was attracted to girls, so I thought "ok I'm straight". Years and many ignored signs later I realized I found feminine men hot, so I thought "I'm straight so it's because they're feminine". Then like a year or two later I caught myself thinking a definitely-not-effeminate actor was hot (not for the first time) and the other shoe dropped. Yeah, I'm a dumbass, but point is that it's much easier to put a label on oneself and go from there, than to deconstruct something as complex as gender and attraction.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

This has been the most informative ted talk I've seen in years.

[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 73 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can't blame them though, femboys are hot

[–] Coasting0942@reddthat.com 76 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

OP is straight.

Femboys make him hard.

Ergo, femboys are women.

Source: Johnny Bravo

Edit: So begins OPs first step into internet research to disprove me….

[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 year ago

True and real

[–] CyanFen@lemmy.one 67 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Am I the only one who feels like exclusively jerking to their SO is weird as fuck?

[–] riodoro1@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

It sounds like a thing they teach you at sunday school

[–] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

It’s insane and disappointing how many people think like that today. People who can’t seperate fantasy and reality and are so insecure about other people’s thought that they want to dictate them.

[–] cobra89@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unless your SO is Scarlett Johansson, but I'm pretty sure even Colin Jost jerks it to someone else now and then.

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[–] riodoro1@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (1 children)

3-4 times this week

Pffffft

[–] So_zetta_slowpoke@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Those are rookie numbers.

[–] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Geez, it's almost like rigid guidelines on sexuality are a farse.

[–] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago
[–] Pregnenolone@lemmy.world 41 points 1 year ago

Maybe not as straight as he wants to think he is

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ONLY 4 times a week?

Those are rookie numbers, git gud noob.

[–] Mandarbmax@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

4 times a week while in a serious relationship though is a lot more than 4 times a week while single.

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

skill issue

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Anyone who doesn't nut once a day counts as asexual imo

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[–] FQQD@feddit.de 34 points 1 year ago

I mean, who doesn't

[–] kingcarlosxiii@lemmy.ca 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait…ya’ll thinking of your Spouses/Significant Others? Honest question. The only time I ever thought about my spouse while masturbating was before they were my spouse.

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[–] SternburgExport@feddit.de 32 points 1 year ago
[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 1 year ago

Damn. Outrageous! What is society doing to our men? Making them horny over feminine looking men? 🤔 what will the l2sgbtqia do to us next? Make me feminine?/ 🥺 please

[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have masturbated to worse things...

[–] sunnie@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago

We're missing that /u/femboyaddict was taken.

[–] ichmagrum@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

That's a damn weird concept of relationship loyalty.

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