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When someone who I was supposed to be able to trust kept repeatedly trying to record me naked in the shower, I retaliated once by kicking him hard in the face. I was told that what I did was wrong and violence was never the answer. I disagree.
I agree with you and disagree with anyone who said it's not OK.
Some people will learn with a gentle hand. Some learn with a slightly firm hand. Some only learn when you pick up a 2x4 and beat them.
As a kid another kid regularly bullied me. Nothing extremely serious... pushing me, grabbing me, putting me in a headlock, stuff like that whenever he felt like it and/or wanted something. Parents and teachers were not able to stop it and I basically just got retaliation. One day when he came at me I simply kicked and managed to hit right in his balls. He ran away crying. Never bothered me again afterwards. Still feels good.
Punching nazis. Always acceptable, even encouraged.
Punching nazis is always self defense.
Itβs kind of infuriating how many un-punched Nazis there are out there.
I want to hear from the two down votes who didn't comment. Fuck nazis and their shitty sympathizers. A punch isn't enough
Nobody else has mentioned proportionality.
When responding to aggression, the response should not significantly escalate the risk. So lethal force should only be applied in scenarios where there is a lethal threat, etc.
Perceived lethal threat
Nope. That's the logic cops use when shooting people in the back or kicking a guy in the head who's lying on the ground.
But thatβs all you have in the moment. There is nothing else.
You're not required to risk your life for someone that's victimizing you. You didn't create the situation and your responsibility is to defend yourself and your loved ones.
Violence is justified when itβs needed to protect yourself or someone else from violence. Thatβs about it, honestly.
I am not a fan of pre-emptive violence.
Self defense, as part of a game (such as wrestling) or in BDSM, when both sides are okay with it and don't face actual danger.
Safe, sane, consensual.
Self dΓ©fense, yep. On a battlefield ? Let these old fuck fight one vs one to resolve their conflict. A noble end is so fucking subjective that I think it would be a terrible idea.
Violence is justified when you have no other means left to defend yourself or someone else otherwise.
At which point I would like to add that people will sometimes not be able to see the means they have left because they are put in a stressful situation in a second. I feel like you can't really blame them for that.
Violence as a response should always be in proportion. That should avoid escalation. In an ideal world.
Unfortunately some people won't stop. Those people need to be put into prison where they cannot hurt anyone anymore.
Use of some violence is justified to stop another bigger, ongoing violence.
I would argue to stop other violence, not necessarily bigger, is also justified. It's never allowed unrestricted, especially as the bigger entity, but a tactical or measured response to prevent further violence can make sense.
I heard a quote that has really stuck with me, it goes something like "violence is the supreme authority from which all other authority is derived"
I don't really condone violence, but this quote has really gotten me thinking.
I think you would be interested in reading a bit on the philosophy of Thomas Hobbs and "the monopoly of violence".
Much more often than I actually do it.
To protect against violence
when someone is WRONG on the internet
You are wrong
Self defense
Violence is a form of escalation. One should never cause a conflict to come to a new height and should only resort to something if in response to anything of that same height.
Also, if a ruler of a nation resorts to that, it shows they're not a great/effective ruler. Fluency in how to rule is determined by how much peace you can accomplish with as little change as possible. Less is more, as they say. If you have to punish people too often like some are doing, you're violating that "less is more" rule.
Self defense but also including defending your rights, freedom, property, and sovereignty
Only when all other options are ruled out. And obviously, you should not be the aggressor in any situation
It's always a matter of degrees. The bigger the injustice, the more violence is justified to rectify it. It is in the disproportionality, in my view, where the problem arises.
Never forget that humans are just barely evolved apes. Sometimes a swift knock to the head is required to activate those neural pathways to discourage anti-social behavior. Not always, but also not never. Claiming otherwise is just self-aggrandizing moralization that people use to make themselves sound and feel superior.