Blaming your fellow queers for your oppression, that's so incredibly lame.
I'm sure you are the perfect expression of queerness, and if every gay were like you, the bigots would stop hating us. /s
Like what are you even proposing? That in order to be an effective queer activist, you need to be okay with misgendering? I feel your rage, but please direct it towards the fascists taking away our rights instead of bashing other queers. This kind of community in-fighting in what the bigots want, we need queer solidarity right now.
Animal agriculture and car-centric infrastructure are honestly two of the biggest blind-spots of mainstream progressives. The tide has been turning for car dependency somewhat, with more and more people starting to get behind the idea of walkable, cyclable cities.
However people can't seem to overcome to cognitive dissonance and realize that the meat, dairy, and egg industries are antithetical to their morals and ideals.