LadyButterfly

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How are you celebrating the kings birthday on Saturday? in c/askuk@feddit.uk
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 hour ago

I'm going to have a massive barney with my family and then dance round with a crown on my head

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How are you celebrating the kings birthday on Saturday? (lazysoci.al)
 

HRH Charles's birthday is Saturday! How many pages will the Daily Fail dedicate to it?

40% of cops beat their spouses in c/memes@midwest.social
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 5 hours ago

I agree there's a lot of abusers in the police. The 40% is an unreliable study, it's old and counts really low level things like slamming doors as domestic abuse. Big issue is not considering the pattern of behaviour and coercive control. For example she finds out he's cheated and slaps him in a one off assault... illegal, but ongoing coercive control isn't there. DA perps in the police needs more research really, which hopefully will happen.

Move glitch sorted in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
So embarrassing in c/politicalmemes@lemmy.world
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Good point! Also I like boobies too

Love this! in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'd already googled there's a few. Please remember to stay wholesome

Important info about the move in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 day ago

Thanks ZDL really appreciate that

Love this! in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 44 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Thanks for commenting! Please keep your comments wholesome ❤️

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Love this! (lazysoci.al)
 
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Move glitch sorted (lazysoci.al)
 

Hey all! We had a couple of glitches moving over but we're sorted now. If you couldn't see anything before please try !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone again

Thanks for bearing with us!

Important info about the move in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 day ago

Yep been a bit stressful today! Adas been an angel and everyone's been really supportive which is great

Important info about the move in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Haha should have thought thanks mate

Lemmy is not a good space for women or a women's community. in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 day ago

Great see you in the safe zone!

Important info about the move in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 day ago

Hey proud I spoke to Ada if your account isnt on piefed you'll see old posts in the old comm, and new in the new. If youre on piefed you can see old in the new.

We've moved! We're now at !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone in c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 day ago

Yep us too! Really glad you're coming over

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They can only be a good thing! (lazysoci.al)
 
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2meirl4irl (lazysoci.al)
 
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Important info about the move (lazysoci.al)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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Hey all!

As you can see we've moved house to !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone If your account isnt on piefed youll see old posts in the old comm, and new in the new. If youre on piefed you can see old in the new. You can get help at !piefed_help@piefed.social you can access it no matter what instance you're from. On jerboa I can't see much atm but interstellar shows it all 🤷‍♀️

In short, we'd had enough of members being upset by the Manosphere jumping in and being nasty. Advantages of blahaj are...

  1. There's no downvoting, so people can't be harassed by downvote.
  2. There's really heavy moderating, blahaj pre-emptively bans known trolls and has zero tolerance on discrimination.
  3. Ada is fantastically supportive and really cares about creating a safe space.
  4. With piefed we can transfer the comm.

Apologies for not putting it to a vote or giving you the heads up. I didn't want to give the Manosphere a chance to cause issues before we went, or try to scupper the move altogether.

There are a couple of posts that vanished in the move and there's likely to be teething problems. But I'm feeling good about there being less stress long term. Just want to say a huge heartfelt thanks to Ada for all her hard work during the move! Ada you've been amazing 👏 🤩 ❤️

Any questions? Ask in the new community!

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We've moved! We're now at !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone (lazysoci.al)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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Come say hi! !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone you can access it from any instance just give it a few days for the transition period. You can access from any instance but your app might not do it interstellar is a great app that works with it

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Heart of the company (lazysoci.al)
 
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Creative Wednesday... how have you been creative recently? (lazysoci.al)
submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al
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WE ARE IN THE PROCESS OF MOVING TO !womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone PLEASE SUB THERE

Helped your child learn a new manual skill? Set up something at work? Sorted a new make up technique? Whatever it is we wanna know!

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Wonderful Wednesday... whose your favourite sesame street character? (lazysoci.al)
 

I know they're all great! But whose your favourite?

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Anyone else do this? (lazysoci.al)
 
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Go go go! (lazysoci.al)
 
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