LadyButterfly

Sounds good! Glad it went well

Haha true

I love that meme! I can see this one being real though

I'm torn on this, I'm gonna go navy but I don't know what. I think I'll go for a navy polo t shirt with my chunky big silver locket. I have silver ballet pumps I'll wear it with and I'm gonna make my hair big

That's a fantastic outfit 😍

Thanks doh I didn't know it's name

Ahhh I didn't know thanks

I'm really sorry this has happened to you, it's shitty. You should be able to come into work without being sexually harassed. You're clothing says "NOT INTERESTED GO AWAY" and you're literally verbalising it. As always this isn't a misunderstanding, it's harassment and it's wrong.

Feeling bad for asserting ourselves is natural, women are taught to be polite and assertive women are bitches, arrogant etc. You're also neuro which adds an extra layer of difficulty.

What would you say to another woman? Would you say she should feel bad, or tell her she's doing right protecting herself? It's the latter and you deserve that same kindness. Always remember as well, what he's doing is literally unlawful!

The law didn't spring up overnight, people pushed for it cos there was a need. Courts, politicians and practitioners had to agree that it was wrong, pass the law and make it fact. That's a lot of work in a male dominated system, but still it was seen as wrong.

I'm a DA outreach worker and I reckon although you're safe, he's a domestic abuse perp. Its impossible for him to just not know this is bothering you, itll be obvious from your reaction. The obsession with sex, the refusal to accept a no, the blatantly ,making you uncomfortable... it's red flags. You really don't need to feel bad about saying no to a man that could hurt you if you got involved with him.

Overall, you really deserve better than this and you've got an army of sisters here backing you up.

This is horribly frustrating mate. And thanks for what you do!

Literally nothing would surprise me about him. Well, nothing bad.

If you can hack workimg remotely that seems sensible

I'm going to drive for 20 minutes today. It's a big drive on my gammy knee, but I'm gonna get the job done!

Also need to sort out my chest of drawers and organise them better