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[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I'm going to say the average would be 7.

I definitely had some -7 days, but by and large it was a good childhood.

I was required to do chores and help out around the house. However, I didn't have too many "wants" that I couldn't have.

I'm fairly spoiled among my peers, but not in a "doesn't have to work, thinks the world revolves around me" way. Always well fed and clothed. Always had a home to live in.

My parents paid for my college, so I graduated without any student loans. They also gave me and my wife the deposit when we bought our house. They continued helping with my kids' college education, covering half of their expenses as well.

There was some abuse. Honestly, it didn't amount to more than what just about every kid my age went through. Horrifying today, but run of the mill back then.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Mr Trump’s drug tariffs would be especially punitive for Ireland

Nowhere close to how punitive it would be for the U.S.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I prefer "Alligator Auschwitz"

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

The Trump Regime has made it widely known that absolutely no one is safe ~~visiting~~ in the United States.

FTFY

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 18 points 4 days ago

Oldest was told every day he was going to be murdered while walking home. That continued until he dropped his bag and told his bully, "today's the day, put up or shut up."

Youngest was blocking a bully to give her friends a chance to get away. He tried to kick her and got the karate demonstration he was asking for.

Middle child was harassed and mocked for five years from Middle School through high school. He spent years begging them to stop, because he didn't want to hurt them. He finally told his bully he wasn't going to put up with it anymore and warned him that if he said another word, he was going to punch him in the face. The bully opened his mouth once more, and my son closed it. No one ever said anything again.

Teachers did nothing. Schools did nothing.

Here is the quote they recited in every karate class:

“I come to you with only Karate, Empty Hands. I have no weapons, but should I be forced to defend myself, my principles or my honor, should it be a matter of life or death, of right or wrong, then here are my weapons, Karate, my Empty Hands.”

— Ed Parker

I see no conflict between the teachings and their actions. They have a right to defend themselves against harassment, and if asking for it to stop doesn't work, escalation is necessary. All the bullies had the opportunity to just walk away. Some took it, some didn't.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

There was some anxiety on my part when my middle child told me he punched his bully in the high school cafeteria. I had felt his punches through a heavy-duty punching shield, and I assumed it would lead to criminal or civil cases. However, when I asked if the bully was ok, he said he pulled the punch.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 36 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Has ICE found out?

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 42 points 4 days ago (11 children)

I always knew shoes weren't going to save my kids from bullying, so I got them karate instead.

The bullying still happened, until they decided it was time for it to stop. Then it stopped.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

All have their place, but canned black olives tap into childhood nostalgia. Putting an olive on each finger and eating them one at a time.

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Probably cheap eggs is part of it.

Given that culling diseased flocks is a mechanism to prevent all farms from being decimated, egg prices will probably skyrocket.

 

Rescuers turned out in force over several days to hunt down nearly 60 guinea pigs that were spotted dumped along a Florida road.

Fifty-four guinea pigs were caught as of the evening of June 29, according to rabbit rescue organization Space Coast Bunnies. At least three were found dead in Orange County, southeast of Orlando.

 

My son has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. He's in his mid-twenties, so it's the average time for onset of bipolar disorder. No family history that we know of, but if it was just two generations back, it probably wouldn't have been talked about.

He had his first manic episode early in the year. He spent a brief time in in-patient treatment, followed by a period of out-patient treatment. During the out-patient treatment, his psychiatrist started to think the diagnosis was incorrect and she weaned him off his meds.

He has had another manic episode, and he's back in the in-patient facility. Luckily he was able to get back into the same place he was in before, so they aren't starting from zero. They started him back on different meds, and he's much better much faster than the first time.

His fiancee was talking to a friend and someone overheard. The person who overheard said her mother was bipolar and she had to take her to the hospital six times, and she told his fiancee that she should break up with him.

The only experts I've spoken to have been the doctors in the crisis center, and I don't know to what degree they are trying to sugar coat things to prevent us from giving up hope.

I'd rather know the reality.

If anyone has any personal experience they can share, I'd appreciate it. If anyone has any professional experience they can share, I'd appreciate that as well.

EDIT: Just wanted to add to this that we were able to visit him today, and he's doing very well.

 
 
 

It's pen cleaning day, so the girls have an afternoon in their playpen while their home gets refreshed.

 

When the directions for knitting the 4th Doctor's scarf were posted, I mentioned in a post that I had the one my mom made for me ~40 years ago.

I said it had never been washed and it needed to be.

I finally did it. Cold water in the laundry room sink, a little bit of woolite, and some swishing. A couple of rinses, and some gentle squeezing to get as much water as I could out.

The tricky part, of course, was laying it out flat to air dry.

 

Seeing lots of cat pictures, but not enough guinea pigs, so here's Daisy and Rose.

Rose, by the way, seems to have recovered completely from her intestinal parasite.

She was getting better, but her recovery coincided with us introducing fresh wheatgrass into their diet (we grew a little window garden for the girls).

They both loved it, but Rose may have loved it too much and gave herself a bellyache. Rushed back to the vet and got more X-rays just to find out that Rose perhaps doesn't know the meaning of "enough".

She's doing well now, and having no problem with the wheatgrass.

We're also pig sitting for our daughter while she takes finals.

This is Etch, the chill college boy:

He's unique among guinea pigs in that he was abused by the other pigs in his environment before she got him, so he wouldn't tolerate being around other guinea pigs. He does ok with Daisy and Rose, although they are in a different pen at a suitable distance from his.

 

I have no idea what a kangaroo has to do with my employer, but they brought in a baby kangaroo for an event, so I waited in line to hold it.

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We got Rose's test results back on Friday, and she's all better, so Rose and Daisy can be together again!

Edit: this is what things were like every day while they were separated:

https://youtube.com/shorts/SkCAVoe-cbM

 

We had to take Rose to the vet on Friday because she stopped eating hay and started having diarrhea.

Diagnosis: intestinal parasite and gas in her stomach.

She's on antiparasitic meds, antibiotics to prevent secondary infection, and a nutritional supplement to replace the hay she isn't eating.

She takes the tiny doses of the meds ok, but she's not a fan of the supplement.

We had a lot of trouble until we figured out how to get her burrito towel wrapped correctly.

She's starting to do better. More normal poops, started nibbling hay, and she stopped fighting the supplement.

Daisy and Rose are inconsolable because we had to separate them until Rose is all better.

The gateway between the pens is closed now and they keep pulling on it like they're trying to pull it open.

 

Obviously teenager is 13-19.

"Young adult" would start at 20, but where's the cutoff at the upper end? Similarly, what's the range for "adult", "old", "elderly", " ancient"?

If someone asks for responses from "old men", how do I know if it applies to me?

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