jjjalljs

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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

This is true. People are bad at crisis and it's not something a set of skills you can easily practice. I do think some hobbies probably help- some stressful video games, some sports and sporting-like things like paintball- but on the whole a lot of people live pretty simple lives where the most surprising, stressful, thing to happen is they almost burned their microwave popcorn. Nothing wrong with that, but sometimes it leads to disappointing behavior

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 30 points 1 hour ago (4 children)

Eventually someone is going to shoot some DOGE agents dead and I won't be mad.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 11 points 12 hours ago

I don't think retail theft is as big as retailers claim ( https://www.cnn.com/2023/01/18/business/retail-shoplifting-shrink-walgreens/index.html ) , but even if it was it's still not even close

In 2012, there were 292,074 robberies of all kinds, including bank robberies, residential robberies, convenience store and gas station robberies, and street robberies. The total value of the property taken in those crimes was $340,850,358. By contrast, the total amount recovered for the victims of wage theft who retained private lawyers or complained to federal or state agencies was at least $933 million in 2012. This is almost three times greater than all the money stolen in robberies that year. Further, the nearly $1 billion successfully reclaimed by workers is only the tip of the wage-theft iceberg, since most victims never sue and never complain to the government.

https://www.epi.org/publication/wage-theft-bigger-problem-forms-theft-workers/

If you need help visualizing scale, revisit https://dbkrupp.github.io/1-pixel-wealth/

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 25 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

In another thread someone was saying that conservatives follow a worldview of "whatever works for me right now". There's no internal consistency or facts. This explains a lot. It looks a lot like being stupid, but i think is something slightly different

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 13 hours ago

In my heart, I want all the billionaires and republicans ~~dead~~ removed from power.

Realistically, I'm not sure what we can get. Even if we regain control of the legislature, much damage has been done that cannot easily be repaired.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 20 points 13 hours ago

Pay people more work and have them do dignified jobs (ie: not making them pee in a bottle) and you'd have more people working.

Treat people like shit and crash the global economy, not so much.

But it's not like conservatives care about making sense of being consistent. Hang mike johnson.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 7 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

You shouldn't do the George W Bush "Believe the same thing on Monday as Wednesday, no matter what happens Tuesday" thing, no. But you should ideally have some underlying belief system that's more sophisticated than "What is best for me right now?"

The whole "the only moral abortion is my abortion" thing is understandable but also kind of reprehensible. People will make a big stink about how abortion is murder, only horrible people do it because they suck at life. And then they have a pregnancy, and they're like "oh well this is different." If you're not going to reconcile those, you're shit. You can say "I was wrong, and the people I was shitting on were in positions like I am now. I didn't understand, and now I do. I was wrong."

You're not required by cosmic forces to defend past beliefs, but a decent person can acknowledge where and why they changed.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 39 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Wage theft is bigger than all other theft combined, but your coworkers probably aren't nearly so upset about that.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 12 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

I've been saying similarly for ages. We're all emotional to some degree, but the right wing often turns it up to 11. Facts don't matter. In-group belonging matters.

I don't know a better word for it than "Stupid", but it is deeply what I'd call stupid. Doesn't care about facts, consistency, outcomes. Just feeling good about being a member of the group.

The oatmeal did a comic about this: https://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 37 points 21 hours ago (5 children)

Someone elsewhere on lemmy made the argument that conservatives essentially live in the eternal now. Any position is at that moment evaluated on if it's good for them/their-group or not. Past responses don't matter. Internal consistency doesn't matter. It's just "is this good for me right now?"

They're trash people, essentially.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 day ago

That's excessive for typical people. The flowers and chocolate are going to look like you're expressing romantic interest, which is inappropriate to do to a child.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 7 points 1 day ago

People are making these decisions. Shitty people. And engineers are implementing it.

Can't we stop them? Why can't we stop them? I'm so tired of people going out of their way to make things worse. I just want to backhand someone

 

I tried it a bit with my reaper in pve and it seemed okay, but I wasn't doing anything challenging that really put it to the test. I haven't tried the others classes yet.

 

Currently, I'm polite to friendly with all of them. No outstanding conflicts. It's sometimes literal kitchen table poly with one, and the others I only see at like parties and such.

Some years ago I had two partners that absolutely did not get along with each other, and that was rough. Recently I was able to do a dinner with 3 partners and everyone had a good time.

I try not to make a big deal about folks meeting. I try to model after meeting your friend's friends.

 

For me there's a bit of a network effect where the polycule sprawls out into the distance. Partners have partners who have partners.

But for disconnected folks, it's mostly been tinder (yuck), and a local meetup.

(Also this might be the first post? That or nothing federated yet)

 

Like I saw one that was titled "I wonder why rule" and had a picture about overpaid CEOs or something.

Why "rule"? What's the origin of this format?

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