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[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee -3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (22 children)

If they follow the rules, they are always welcome in Casual Conversation.

I do not understand the same reasons to judge them that everyone else seems to. They have never seemed antagonistic.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I haven't heard of her name in so long that I forgot if she was a singer, an actress, or a perfume icon.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago

There's an example that occurred in reverse but is recent enough to be relevant. I have a friend (the same friend who a little bit ago a lot of people here scolded me for something I said to him two years ago) who had a birthday at the time (this was a year ago), and he mentioned how stressful birthdays were for him and that his family (who he stayed with due to his diagnosis) was abusive and never typically got him anything. I had no technological way to send anything, so I braved sending him fifty dollars (or was it a hundred) and sending it to him across the continent where he was. Eight days later, he opened it and said it was the best gift anyone ever gave him. I didn't brag about it at the time like I might sometimes for things (not that I consider someone doing that a bad thing), but I felt like I had made someone's world.

Meanwhile, his BF saw this. He has (or had) a BF who would often trying to change him to fit his (the BF's) image, such as invalidating his DID and transgender identity (which everyone assumes is why he is interested in him), and the BF had a kind of reputation for not being a team player in any sense of the word. But he saw what I did and saw it as a challenge to his productivity. It wasn't a week later when I was told he was pumping my friend hundreds of dollars to "top" me. I stood there silently as a bunch of money came pouring in for my friend, who was probably elated to have so much money now. He (the BF) probably thought these actions were overshadowing me, but all I could do is sit there and watch it all and, in Steve Urkel's voice, think "did I do that". If my friends are happy, that's 99.9% of my work done.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago

It was your second sentence I had in mind when I asked.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You didn't say "some". Though I'm not sure what "smne" means, my dictionary doesn't have that.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago

Probably the mark I have on my arm. It's nothing spectacular, scars happen all the time... until you realize mine is in bruise form. Just a bruise chilling on my arm. I'm not even sure about the mechanism behind it. It doesn't hurt and is just a mark, but people don't realize scars aren't just an exterior thing.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Or what if we had a limit of ten of each a day?

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In that case, no good ones.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (9 children)

By original, do you mean an idea that was independently formed or an idea which formed before anyone else could think of it?

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 3 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Taylor Swift was always technically popular but surged in popularity following a few events where she sang. For about a few months, that's all anyone ever wanted to talk about, and there was even an infamous incident where mayhem was erupting in Canada while Justin Trudeau was at a Taylor Swift concert. In short, for those few months, she became one of those "overrated" people like we tend to think of Justin Bieber as.

Then came time for the Superbowl, and an unfortunate string of circumstances led to it being highly politicized (in the semifinals, the Buffalo Bills were cheated out of going to the Superbowl by referees who were biased towards the Kansas City Chiefs, and people were boycotting the Superbowl until the people there had the bright idea of having Donald Trump book a seat in order to boost ratings). Taylor Swift made an appearance at the Superbowl too, but the specific demographics of the Superbowl caused by the presidential gimmick they threw in ended up creating a crowd that disliked her and booed her, which in turn instantly popped the trend bubble. Which to be fair is unfair, she never asked for any of this and was just riding the wave so-to-speak until it came crashing down in an outburst of hate.

 
 

It's the stuff of memes. Everyone wants to talk and laugh about the strange presence of Scientology in the world. However, despite its supposed prevalence, which I find sufficient to make an instance for it (might/would explain some of the commotion and rumors going on) which is an inevitability, few people ever discuss knowing any Scientologists (often in the process of forgetting that, in the end, they're just another group like any group, minus peculiarities). Do you have anyone in your life, be it a friend, family member, or someone in your community, who is one or thought to be one?

 

The links, by the way, were to remarks spoken by people who object to the quoted claim.

 

I've noticed both medical dramas and police dramas rely heavily on Californian legal practice, because Hollywood. For example, I just watched the episode of Doc (it's literally just called Doc) where a doctor saved someone on the "DNR list" and almost got suspended, and so here I was thinking "the patient's perspective would never fly in my environment". Of course, though, the US (and definitely California) are not the whole world. So I was wondering, what's an episode of a medical/police drama you could think of where, in your legal environment, the characters would seem crazy for diving into the topic of how they did?

 

This comes in response to news that I've heard of recently. Goes to show if you value your posthumous requests, organize them wisely.

The concept we generally call "dying wishes" are a staple in how we think of society. Just look to the ancient play Antigone for that. However, things don't always go as planned, especially in the wrong hands. What's the biggest difference you've seen between someone's "dying wishes" and what actually ended up happening?

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