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[–] nl4real@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I assume they're not that big into politics and just wanna appear moderate.

[–] bluegreenwookie@bookwormstory.social 37 points 6 days ago (2 children)

As someone who said this when they were younger

"Uninformed idiot"

now that I'm older I'm fully liberal since i am more informed.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

But don't you know? YoU'Ll gEt mOrE cOnSeRvAtIvE aS yOu AgE! Biggest fucking lie of my life.

[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago
[–] Brutticus@lemm.ee 25 points 5 days ago

"I dont mind the gays, but I keep voting for Fascists because right wing talking points about how Unions make the prices of eggs go up."

[–] BaumGeist@lemmy.ml 28 points 5 days ago

"I pay lip service to minorities, but don't want to allocate resources to their needs"

[–] OpenPassageways@lemmy.zip 16 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I prefer to use the term fiscally responsible.

It's fiscally irresponsible to cut taxes for the billionaires and corporations when we have record deficits.

It's fiscally irresponsible to cut the IRS budget when that results in less revenue.

Republican voters have been brainwashed into thinking that Republicans are somehow more responsible with the economy and budget, when history shows that Republicans drive up the deficit with irresponsible tax cuts.

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (5 children)

"I vote Republican, but I'm self-aware enough to know that I should be embarrassed about it." (In the US)

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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I think they're a goddamn idiot. I like it more when people tell me that they don't have enough time to think about this shit and so they don't have an opinion.

[–] muusemuuse@lemm.ee 11 points 5 days ago

"I believe good things but don't want to actually sacrifice anything or be responsible for any of my actions that my prevent good things from happening"

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 28 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If they're American I would point out that they have no representation for their conservative views because there is no fiscally conservative party in the United States.

[–] MammyWhammy@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 days ago

I always just reference this article:

https://www.investopedia.com/us-debt-by-president-dollar-and-percentage-7371225

And say the modern Republican party started with Nixon.

[–] Brotha_Jaufrey@lemmy.world 50 points 6 days ago

“I don’t hate women and minorities but I don’t see anything wrong with an economy built off of their exploitation.”

[–] Roundeyegweilo@lemm.ee 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Someone who is a conservative who has a gay friend or a gay kid that they love and accept.

[–] afronaut@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Barely even that. Someone who likes marijuana is more likely.

[–] Roundeyegweilo@lemm.ee 2 points 3 days ago

I'll agree with this too.

[–] KingOogaBooga@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

I don't want to be included with the rest of the domestic terrorists in my political party.

[–] wampus@lemmy.ca 27 points 6 days ago (4 children)

So many people with such brutal takes on it -- helps to quantify who the audience is on lemmy I guess.

Socially liberal fiscally conservative, to me at least, means that the person is in favour of equality in the sense of equality of treatment from the government, but is not in favour of additional big spending projects to try and have equality of opportunity. They're pro-choice, but likely against the government funnelling money into providing abortions for women (so abortions available, but not gov subsidized). They're pro-trans rights in terms of being fine with whoever doing whatever they want with their body/partners of choice, but against government paying for trans-specific gender affirming procedures and parades to highlight those groups. They're in favour of things like universal medicare/dental care, because those programs are shown to be a net benefit fiscally and socially.

In general, they support socially progressive ideas, so long as they're fiscally costed out and beneficial to the public purse. They're against increased government spending / reach, preferring 'small government', with the social components placed more on individuals to fund directly.

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[–] scotts@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago

Racist. It’s always dogwhistle racism.

[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 26 points 6 days ago

"I don't care about minorities enough to sacrifice anything about my way of living."

[–] mosscap@slrpnk.net 9 points 5 days ago

"Socially liberal" right up until the point that we start talking about worker's rights, the dignity of poor people, and the exploitation of cheap slave labor on the other side of the world

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 23 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

“I’m a republican, and I will consistently, and wrongly, vote in what I think are the best interests of my wallet while paying lip service to liberal social ideals. “

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[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Every discussion I've had with someone who said this has led me to expect ignorance. I think its something people who don't know much like to say because they think it sounds good.

[–] beefnugget@lemmy.world 32 points 6 days ago

"I don't actively hunt members of marginalized communities with one of my many obnoxiously customized firearms but I still have a weird kink for giving tax cuts to billionaires in exchange for a worsened quality of life because I have a 12 year old's understanding of how the world works."

[–] TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago

They don't want to pay money for social spending they don't realize they benefit from while wearing the costume of an ally.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 points 5 days ago

Usually they are lying. It means they hate poor people.

[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 26 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (9 children)

As someone who has used the term before.

Social liberal: I think you should be able to do whatever you want in your personal life, even if it harms yourself. I'm willing to negotiate with harming consenting adults while recognizing the possibility, even likelihood, of an imbalance of power making it difficult to properly give consent, or for it to be recognized by the public at large, e.g., maybe Amazon workers aren't really okay with peeing in bottles because they don't have enough time or facilities for bathroom breaks, just because they accepted the job. Doing things that harm those you have guardianship over is not acceptable because they are not in a position to give consent.

Fiscal conservative: I want money in the public trust to be spent effectively. This doesn't mean I want less taxes, I'm in fact okay with more. A city near me has 30% of its budget dedicated to police services, yet we have some of the highest violent crime in Canada. The simple fact is, a lot of crime is driven by poverty and lack of opportunity. So why are we paying to catch and jail poor people with no skills who are trying to survive and not paying for skills training, robust childhood education, and at least minimal supports so people don't have to be desperate enough to risk their lives and mine so they can survive? It doesn't make sense and there's no indication it's working. FYI, school meal programs tend to help the local economy to the tune of about $7 for every $1 you spend on them. That sounds terribly fiscally responsible to me...

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[–] conicalscientist@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago

They want to virtue signal trivial social issues to avoid admitting they're just plain conservative.

[–] GuyFleegman@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 6 days ago

“Sure the problems are bad, but the causes? The causes are good.”

[–] Azal@pawb.social 23 points 6 days ago (1 children)

"I'm a dumbass who's too embarrassed to say I vote Republican."

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

"My definition of socially liberal is I don't think gay people belong in death camps, per se."

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[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 20 points 6 days ago

"I'm not gay, but $20 is $20."

[–] arotrios@lemmy.world 20 points 6 days ago

I will get high with you, and then turn you into the cops when you can't pay rent.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 13 points 6 days ago

"But in practice, I almost certainly vote Republican."

[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago

Just buncha utter bollocks

[–] squinky@lemm.ee 21 points 6 days ago

I used to say this. And I believed it. It’s a lie people tell themselves because they’re voting for terrible things and don’t want to take credit for half of it.

“I kill the poor but I’m sad about it” gtfo

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago

'I'm conservative and racist and I'm fully aware of that. However, I have enough sense not to say that in polite society... Unless you're cool with it? "

[–] Alloi@lemmy.world 12 points 6 days ago
[–] TheDeadlySquid@lemm.ee 7 points 6 days ago

Raging asshole.

"I'm not a fan of murdering women, people of color, and LGBT people, but I still believe that Trickle Down Economics work! Long Live Capitalism!"

Or maybe it's Arnold Schwarzenegger who still want to pretend the repepublican party still exists and play RINO. Like... Dude just leave already, its a nazi party. 🤦‍♂️ (Maybe he's doing a deep-cover Terminator Infiltration? 🤔)

[–] skozzii@lemmy.ca 7 points 6 days ago

I would think they want to not get caught up in a culture war, but also don't want a ton of government programs and costs and don't want to incur debt.

But people have no idea what anything means anymore and they just use words, like woke, and they use them wrong. So who even knows if people are talking about the same thing.

[–] JTskulk@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

"I'm going to say I'm late for something to get out of this conversation."

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