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[โ€“] doomcanoe@sh.itjust.works 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Couldn't hear the TV over my crunchy snacks

This is my daily. I am harder of hearing than my wife so I have to turn the TV up, but then it is disrupting her sleep.

So then I sometimes use headphones, but sometimes the odd quietness of the room at that point causes her to wake up.

๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

[โ€“] MTK@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I guess being unable to lose weight?

It is ridiculous how privileged it is in the context of human history to actually struggle with too much calories.

[โ€“] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My wife is technically obese. She's not bedridden fat like you see on TV, just nicely rounded. She complains about wanting to lose weight and finding it hard.

I suffered pretty serious poverty before meeting her and turning my life round, and also the brexit-covid combo basically emptied our supermarket shelves and scared the shit out of us all.

My mouth agrees with her that we should both do more to lose weight, but my mind says "bitch finish that sandwich let's get a bit more famine resistance in us."

[โ€“] MTK@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I think this is also a big part of the issue.

Many countries are only recently in the phase of over consumption, meaning that parents and grandparents are often teaching kids early on to not waste food in a extremely unhealthy manner once you are in the context of over consumption.

For some people their parents grew up in a time where wasting the last few bites of a meal, or letting food go bad, or not eating food that in front of you would actually be bad. Like, if you didn't eat the last few bites you are wasting a valuable resource that you might not get the privilege of eating tomorrow.

But for example in many parts of the US right now, you are much better off learning to throw food away than to learn to force feed yourself.

It is a shame that the world is like that, but the reality is that for many people today, being okay with throwing away food is an actually important part of staying healthy.

[โ€“] robocall@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I got a Rx for zepbound and lost a bunch of weight.

[โ€“] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 24 points 6 days ago (4 children)

I dated a girl whoโ€™s family never kept leftovers from meals even thanksgiving dinner they would throw out anything not eaten after dinner.

[โ€“] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wtf leftovers are like half the fun

[โ€“] Landless2029@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Thanksgiving sandwiches are amazing.

[โ€“] dogs0n@sh.itjust.works 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Would they at least make less food to avoid the leftovers???????!!!!!! ๐Ÿ˜ข

[โ€“] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Nope they were very wasteful. And they all thought they were so much better than anyone else.

[โ€“] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

bet they white and Christian.

[โ€“] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[โ€“] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I know nothing about mormonism except for surface-level info and memes, but I would have assumed they'd be more frugal types.

[โ€“] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Yes they run the gamut of how they live their lives. I know some in the Mormon community who are very frugal and save and what not. And there are many people i have known in the Mormon community who act like they are Hollywood celebrities and are just wasteful with everything. Always buying a new car or truck, selling and moving into bigger houses, buying expensive name brands clothes etc.

[โ€“] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Extra worst! As another example her dad who is no longer alive was close friends with that Bundy family from southern Nevada that had that stand off with the government.

[โ€“] Lemminary@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I've been to a fancy restaurant before. We were given dirty looks for leaving with a bag of leftovers.

Wow. To me, Thanksgiving leftovers > the actual meal.

This hurts my soul.

My 65" oled tv is pretty laggy, and there's supposed to be an Optimize section in the menu, but there isn't, and the firmware is up to date.

[โ€“] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

A couple of weeks ago, my favorite coffeeshop was closed. And, to make matters worse, my backup coffeeshop was closed. I was very lucky that my second backup was open. Otherwise, I would have been forced to go to the fucking Starbucks.

[โ€“] viking@infosec.pub 4 points 6 days ago

I'd rather eat a spoonful of dry instant coffee than set foot into this establishment.

[โ€“] SereneSadie@lemmy.myserv.one 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I bought the wrong dual arm monitor stand, and couldn't refund it.

[โ€“] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 4 points 6 days ago

I live in a nice village, my company were going litter picking volunteering which I really wanted to do but after day 1 (found a few items) it was just going for a walk with an empty bag.

I considered dropping lower the night before my son had to do a litter pick for a beavers badge

I ate too much, and now I feel so bloated that all I can bring myself to do is sit on my comfortable sofa

[โ€“] Lemminary@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

A family with too much stuff in their house. We're sometimes given brand new clothes with the tag still on that they forgot about and no longer want. And this is like upper middle class.

Anyway, what I mean to say is tax the rich.

[โ€“] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 6 days ago

I am currently at a party of around 50 people sitting alone because I only know 1 person who is off talking to others, feeling super awkward. Does that count?

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