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fuck thousands for a coffin. or hundreds for an urn. can i legally be burried in butcher paper?

can i donate my body to science and skip burrial all together?

i want my final action to be a big middle finger to the funeral industry picking on people in their weakest moments.

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[–] DrunkAnRoot@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

have your homies smoke your ashes in a blunt

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[–] abbotsbury@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I think you can just not claim the body and the government will bury it in a pauper's grave or something, but there might be some downsides to rejecting the body entirely.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Sky burial.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I didn't realize that there were any illegal ways to dispose of a body, as long as it's in their will and sanitary

[–] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Certain types of burial allow the body to potentially contaminate nearby soil. Others can leave behind a void that can either collapse and disrupt nearby graves, or in some cases lift the body back to the surface in heavy rain. (Extremely uncommon now because essentially nowhere allows you to use those methods)

Funeral pyres or other forms of open air cremation are generally not legal due to concerns of fire spreading.
Whole body water burial is probably not legal in a body of fresh water in the US due mostly to the complexity of figuring out which law applies to that circumstance in any of the bodies of water that could be used that wouldn't be grossly undersized and unsanitary. (Basically that means the Great lakes, which are the only ones with the depth and size sufficient, but are shared between multiple states and also Canada. Usually the rule is that if it's not forbidden it's permitted, but body disposal is more complicated)

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[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

There's definitely some limitations. There was a bit of an issue in my state when a Mosque wanted to install a cemetery on their lot, but they were too close to the aquifer and weren't allowed.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

That's kind of what I meant by sanitary. Idk what the appropriate word would be. "Safe" I guess?

[–] Worx@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I suspect it's different in different countries, but things like desecrating a corpse are often illegal. I expect if you carved it up and started throwing chunks around, that would be illegal even if it's what the deceased wanted. Probably storing the body away and not telling the authorities of the death would also be illegal

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

I wonder, if you could throw the chunks around safely without sanitation issues, would it be illegal if that's what the person wanted? Is it defiling a corpse if thats what they wanted done?

[–] Boddhisatva@lemmy.world 122 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

Donate your body to science. My mother did that. She used to joke that they would put her body in a car trunk in the desert, or some other location, and see what time and decay did so they could measure the process. For all I know, that's literally where her body is right now. They also do other experiments. Then, after a few years, they return cremated remains to you.

Try to find an institution that will take your body. I've looked into it. There's a place in a neighboring state that will take mine, but if I die more than 100 miles from them, someone will need to arrange to transport the body to them. There's not much more to it for me.

Edit to alter link to a better site

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 64 points 1 week ago (12 children)

Word of warning though, check out the company before you do so. My mother in law was in the medical field and had a coworker that did this. The company ended up refusing the body because they had too many bodies. I've also heard of your body being used to test munitions, which is pretty much the opposite of what a lot of people would want.

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[–] nocturne@piefed.social 62 points 1 week ago (7 children)

My son is in his water bottle. Never bought an urn from the crematorium.

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