Droggelbecher

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[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Does anyone else here like setting it to prime numbers? Even numbers are so boring. Also, prime numbers are prime in every number base, while the concept of even numbers doesn't translate.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

In 2021 my government sent out vouchers (that you could exchange for cash) to help with the energy pricing crisis after Russia's full scale invasion of Ukraine. I knew I'd be getting that letter and what would be in it. Then I got it and forgot to open it, to this day. 500€ down the drain. That's like 20 hours of work for me.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 17 points 2 hours ago

More specifically it's because Israel and its allies are running a successful global campaign of conflating opposition to its genocide with antisemitism, which, in turn, normalises antisemitism, which, obviously, harms Jewish people everywhere.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

That sucks! Mine started hurting at 27 (this year). My knees started hurting it around 16. I dont think I should want to die due to this.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (5 children)

The premise of 'end times' of that question couldnt really have been that the rapture is imminent, seeing as 9% of atheists believe we're in the end times in your graph.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Klar einscheissung ist eher selten, aber dass man zwei unterhosen innerhalb einer woche anblutet kann schon passieren.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

This misconception is why I and many others prefer the precise wording: gaining healthy(ish) years.

You don't die of 'old age'. You die of disease(s), which become more and more likely as you accrue damage throughout your life. You can't really extend the period someone stays alive with end stage dementia or cancer. If anything, you can only prevent, halt, or slow the development of the diseases. And that's what's meant by longevity/extending life.

Granted, you'll still accumulate non fatal issues. But I'd argue you can lead a meaningful life with knee pain and far sightedness.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I can't get over the fact that it's a word people use for farts, particularly when talking to children.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

It's ok that microblogging isn't for you. It isn't for me either. Doesn't mean that it's not valid or even important that it exists for other people.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

e.g. my country has a population of just like 8 million, and while it's neutral and has no military involvement in any war, is one of the world's biggest arms manufacturers and was the only European country that delivered arms to Russia throughout the Crimean crisis. Way up until 2021.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

That is textbook genocide justification. Also not even true. At all. There's countries that have a higher population and fewer warmongering tendencies vs other countries.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

Fwiw I have pretty severe ADHD and somewhat mild autism.

My best advice is that one doesn't need an explanation for emotions. Focus on needs. I second the 'is this good/bad/neutral' that someone suggested. I would like to add that I would focus on NEEDS rather than what the feeling is.

Examples:

'would you like to be alone right now? Do you want me here?'

'would you like to be held?'

Even simple ones like 'lights on or off?'

Maybe together you can learn what situations can be helped by what reaction/strategy. E.g. when I'm overwhelmed, I like it when the lights are off and my partner sorta lies on me like a weighted blanket.

With physical intimacy, she sounds a bit like me; it can be hard to know what you want. My strategy is to ask to try sth, then as it's happening, check in to see how it feels. I've told my partner to do it like this.

Example:

'would you like to try holdingy hand?'

If it's a yes, do it, then after a few seconds:

'is this ok? Do you like it?'

If either of you don't want to or can't talk well in these situations, you can designate a non verbal signal, like asking and nodding, or guiding someone's hand, then looking at them, and they nod to signal consent.

Honestly, I act like this in intimacy with non autistic people too. It's good consent practice. At worst, they're like 'yes yes get on with it'.

Hope my ramblings help at all, lol. You sound like a sweet and attentive partner. All the best and feel free to ask further questions.

 

I used to be super lazy and not take anything. Just lived with the tight feeling of my face after washing it with shower soap. The only cosmetics I'd take were always deodorant, tooth paste, tooth brush, shower soap. Hair was washed with the shower soap, too.

These days I take proper face wash, my moisturiser, sun screen (I've never gotten a sun burn, so I used to not be diligent about this), floss, and, if it's more than like 3-4 days, shampoo.

If it's for a fancy event like a wedding, I'll bring conditioner and the small number of makeup products I'm going to wear (eyeliner and/or lipstick. I don't do base and have black lashes and eyebrows).

The only cosmetics i usually use that I'm not bringing: (sometimes) conditioner, retinol serum, BHA peel, the clay I use for clay masks and cuticle oil. I use hand cream, but only when I teach, because the chalk dries my out like nobody's business. So I keep the cream at work. I do keep the cuticle oil, retinol and bha at my partner's place because I sometimes stay there for two weeks or longer, remote working.

I think it'll be a different story when I go backpacking!

How about you? What do you bring? What things that you usually use do you not bring?

ETA: actually going away for four days right now, somehow I packed my cuticle oil but forgot my floss! I guess I'm not consistent haha.

 

Hi there! I've tried researching this myself, but found myself overwhelmed because I'm simply not knowledgable enough.

I've got a 20 year old 50cc vespa. I got this idea in my head that I should convert it to electric, since getting a new vehicle has such a huge environmental impact. The battery is on its last legs, and I'm not so sure about the engine either, and I was thinking I'd convert instead of replacing the existing parts. I'd like to keep it at a similar power bc that way, people who don't have a motorcycle license could legally drive it, too. (If they have a car license.)

Has anyone done anything like this or has some other pointers?

TIA!

 

A red button. Image says: 'Would you press the button?' [results of pressing the button:] there exists a pill that makes your disability a LOT less debilitating BUT it's near-impossible to get because the non-disabled enjoy taking the pill for fun and the government doesn't want them to.

 

I hope this is how cross posts work

 

I know, not all omnis. But this is based on personal experience.

 

I'm aware that I, the consumer, won't change the world and that we need structural change.

Still, I've been wondering. I've come to learn that plastic recycling is largely a myth/scam, but what about glass and metal recycling? Also, what happens to the plastic coating on metal during recycling?

TIA

 

I regret nothing. Say what you want.

Edit: I just saw the two typos. If you find them, you're welcome to keep them.

 

For real. When I can get my skin to clear up, people guess my age accurately. When I have a breakout, I get carded for beer, which is 16+. I'm 27.

Looking young isn't the be all, end all imo. I prefer to look my age. As I get wiser and more experienced and know myself better, I develop white hairs and fine lines and I wouldn't have it any other way.

 

I'm using DDG or searx for all my casual searching, but haven't been able to find a good search engine for scholarly articles specifically. Scrolling through pages upon pages of forum posts and educational stuff for teens/kids is unfortunately too time consuming when I'm specifically looking for research papers. I'd also need to be filtering by year of publication since I need to know what's currently going on in my field, not what was going on 30 years ago.

TIA!

 

Something about there being a record of what I said that can be checked and rechecked as many times as wanted gives me mad anxiety. Like they can analyse just how weird I talk. With a phonecall, all that remains is memory, and that makes people way more inclined to give me the benefit of the doubt.

Sometimes I take half a day considering just how to address and sign an email. There's such intricate expectations there and no cues from them that would allow me to adjust as needed. It's just guessing with zero clues. At least when I get an immediate response to anything I say I can adjust as I go and kind of match their tone.

Don't get me wrong, I find calls stressful too, but at least the stressing is over when it's done. It's more of a ripping the band-aid off kind of stress. The barrier of actually doing it is higher, but at least i can't really spend all day putting my energy into it as I do with an email.

 

Hello skincare friends! Do any of you swim regularly?

I'm wondering how to synchronize my twice-weekly swimming sessions with my skincare routine. Chlorine is quite drying and can cause breakouts.

I usually do: am: Wash with water-sunscreen pm: wash with cleanser, retinol, moisturise (5 times a week) wash with cleanser, bha, rinse, moisturise (other 2 days)

How would you coordinate this with swimming? No bha on the swim days to avoid drying out too much? No retinol either to avoid breakouts?

I have noticed that my skin has been feeling more tight pretty much every day since I've started swimming.

If anyone has additional advice on preventing ear infections in eczema filled ears (ie the skin in the outer ear canal has eczema) when swimming, let me know!

TIA!

 

Training routine: 8k/50min once a week, 1-2 (usually 1) slower runs of 3k-ish.

Always at least 1 day rest, where I sometimes do light upper body workouts, sometimes nothing.

Longer run sometimes replaced by an alpine hike of a few hours. Walking of at least 3k, often more, almost daily. I've been doing the latter for years, been running somewhat consistently for ~8months.

Participating in a 10k in May.

I'm noticing some pain behind the upper edge of my patellae that tends to start around the middle or end of my longer runs and after a little while of hiking uphill. Since I'm pretty sure it's not muscle pain, I don't want to just push through it. Do I need to take a complete break from running? Do I even need to take a break from walking? If so, for how long? Or is it going to be enough to reduce mileage a bit? Do I need to start cross training more at this level already?

Thank you in advance!

Edit: just remembered, first time I felt it was during a 30k flat hike a few weeks back. It usually goes away overnight at the latest.

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