kofe

joined 2 years ago
[–] kofe@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

I've not seen or followed the memes much, personally. I adore many of the emojis though. Such cuteness potential to outweigh the ugly

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Nope, changing pronouns is compelling speech according to evangelical extremists. Oh and changing your name should only apply to last name's of women and young girls getting married, cuz we gotta keep in mind however many states still allow child marriage.

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

I've been through a whole evolution the last year between asking out loud "do you know I love you?" Then questioning my epistemic standards for knowledge and whether cats can hold the same, so shifting the question "do you sense that I love you?" The latter seems more verifiable lol. Just seeing them do a slow blink at me and crawl up in my lap to boop their heads against mine confirms they're at least comfy. Over enough years, I can't imagine what else it would be other than them having that sense to some degree

They might not understand the full extent of it, but as long as they're happy and healthy, idk what else I could ask for

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Riding without gear is pretty reckless tbf

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 38 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Trump has. He posted about how "they" are attacking Christians iirc (at first it was radical leftists, then he posted again with more ambiguous language, I think). Interesting, most Christians don't consider Mormons part of Christianity- and Kirks murderer was raised Mormon. Trump helped amplify fear mongering with that, too, so. Gee, I wonder why a Mormon church was targeted by a Trump supporter?

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Dooown here in the deep blue seaaa

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

I have one that says "HOWDY! I'm Mat. I'm on howdy duty!"

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

It shows he planned a trip late 2014. Its not concrete evidence, and not all the files have been released afaik. I trust the evidence but am skeptical of jumping to conclusions. He's a piece of shit for plenty of other reasons, and it's worth looking into further along with anyone else in these files

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I hadn't heard it was unmarried specifically, like if they did get married and divorced they're still fathers of the babies

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago

It must have been "left" to be destroyed!

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

And tried to offer food and water to a starving dehydrated dude in the desert

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Its what mentally healthy people do, so hope you get whatever help you clearly need

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fuck the manosphere (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by kofe@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemmy.world
 

I just want to vent a bit - I started seeing someone a few weeks ago. Old fling that I ran into through some friends that got rekindled, and I was excited that it seemed like more than just casual hookups this time. But there were some yellow flags I ignored that turned out to be red flags, and now I'm feeling frustrated and hurt.

Dude for real dropped the line that men are more "capable" and "logical" on me. That gender studies are "indoctrination." I told him we should probably stop seeing each other if that's really what he thinks. It wouldn't be logical for me to keep seeing someone that thinks lesser of me, now, would it?

I'm grateful to have some guy friends that I turned to after I left, cuz I wanted to go into "fuck all men" mode, but I know it's not true or helpful. Just like there are women out there that have internalized misogyny, there's feminist men, enbies, etc. We're all just people and we're not monoliths beholden to differences in biology. This is just sexist, manosphere bullshit in particular

Anyway. I'm still feeling angry and wanted to put it out there for some support and solidarity. Anyone have a recent win they'd like to share or something?

ETA: Thank you so much for the conversation y'all! I've been trying to keep up but I gotta get some sleep. I'll check in later but hope everyone has a good day. Keep up the empowerment! 💜

 

I know it's not the most engaging or thought provoking question, but I'm having a bad day and would really like to find a space to vent

 

Hey y'all, want to give a heads up that I used redact a few days ago to delete all my comments and found the entire history restored today. I've seen a few useful tips that if you're petty enough, start editing and deleting your comments manually so it doesn't get noticed as quickly. I started by viewing my top comments and edited them to say "As a language AI model, I'm beginning to edit all my comments in protest of reddit"

I'm just going to do a little at a time and will check back in after about 12 hours or so to make sure it's not restored then keep going

Obligatory fuck spez

ETA: Thank you @deweydecibel for the explanation! If y'all are using redact, try making sure you're using the one with a 5 second delay

Edit 2: @EnigmaNL also noted the script didn't work for comments in subs that were locked down. I just finished going through mine and can confirm there weren't too many left, so I think that's what the issue was!

 

Say hi to Frankie 😄

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