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[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

What's happening in the American Reich is inspiring a very strong sense of European patriotism like I've never seen before among common people around me.

It's pretty ironic, yet makes sense, that European unity could be achieved this sad way.

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago

Oh, btw, one last thing. When you say "we", you mean.. Who ? Thanks!

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (2 children)

I've been thinking about this lately. I'm almost 40 something and I think I really wouldn't like to imperson younger generations lingo for the sake of it being "trendy".

But there are two exceptions for me :

  1. It genuinely made me laugh and "weaves well" with my own way of talking. I mean, were not supposed to stop incorporating new words in our language as far as it's not forced, right? My slang comes from the 90s. Certain (small) parts of the newer gens slang fit so well into my own repertoire! I think that's mostly the part which isn't "word building" but "word archeology", like slang from my gen being reinterpreted/reappropriated, which is actually pretty cool.

  2. Another funny case. Its happening a lot lately, but some words from my mother's language (she comes from an African country) are surprisingly becoming popular. I never used them before even though I think and talk to myself with them since being a child. I'm hesitating a lot to use them now. It would be easier for me but could really look like "playing cool" which I don't want at all. For additional complexity, add that some of those words, in my mother's/family language have slight differences (like language differences across same-language speaking countries), and when I do use those words, I'm getting corrected by youngsters for slang misuse. I mean it's fair, I don't take it personally, but it's weird.

Ex :

Miskina, in Arab

Maskine, in the weird variant of swahili my mother speaks.

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Hmm. Thanks for the info. I might need to have a talk with my psychiatrist.

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Hmm. Yes indeed. But can't it.. well..hurt, like physically, even if the sense of self is gone?

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (5 children)

What? could you elaborate on that?

Although I find this comment pretty stupid, it's quite hard nowadays to not think : Ok, so US has officially joined the New Axis and is there to stay with widd popular support, because they're now basically the nazis. What happens there is of no importance. What's important is to find the new Allies.

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Femboys are you still in the end

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Mmh. Yeah. That's a sound point.

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)

95% because they're basically nazis.

puts on prof hat

Well, in some countries, there was indeed historical link between sexual/gender minorities and pedophile advocacy movements (well "movements" is kind of a strong word here) during the 1950s to 1980s. It's hard for us to understand today, but during my studies, I've worked on that topic and met a few people invested in creating or dismantling this link.

But :

  1. It didn't last for long.
  2. That's certainly not what they have in mind.
  3. Most importantly, although public and documented cases exist, those minor parts of the LGBT movements were CERTAINLY NOT the strongest allies of the pedophile advocacy movement. Their strongest allies were actually well.. more probably from the ruling class.
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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by needthosepylons@lemmy.world to c/upliftingnews@lemmy.world
 

... I realize sure, some things are good, some aren't, struggles are here, and I'm even not one of those having it the worst.

But I just wanted to write something down for all those of you that are younger : I can't, sadly, know when or how it ends, or even if it will at all in certain cases, but you know all this self-criticism, self-flagellation, constant lack of self-confidence?

Well, there may be a time when it all ends. Completely, totally, entirely, and just like that, you realize you're free from it, probably forever.

It doesn't make everything ok, doesn't heal everything and won't change anything to your denied need for justice and anger against subservience or all the evils people, or you, live through.

But this whole thing about self harming, physically or psychologically? THIS may end. It ended for me like 6 or 7 years ago, probably to never come back. Nothing particular happened, you know. Stuff just healed. It took time but it did happen in the end.

And I dearly wish it will for you all too.

Cheers and take care.

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by needthosepylons@lemmy.world to c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world
 

And by lifetime wage, I mean this

Edit : Keeping the post up for the message and the link, have been warned about the identity of the man in the picture. Ewwwwwwww.

 

Il y en a 250 qui partent à l'impression demain pour les pubs et autres formes de réclame dans ma ville. Si vous aimez le design, faites vous plaisir aussi !

 
 
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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by needthosepylons@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
 

Alright, so, something I've been talking about with my therapist a lot, but I thoughts folks out here could have interesting povs.

To sum it up, I'm constantly trying to act like a saint (figuratively, I'm an atheist). There's one exception to this, people holding power and making others miserable in any way.

But basically, you know, this whole mentality of banishing anger, jealousy, egoism, selfishness, greed, desire for power and authority and all that? That's me.

I don't mean I manage to do so constantly, but that's what I strive for.

One could think, and I did think, it was a desire for social praise. But really, when I get praised, which happen a lot, I don't care and that's more awkward that anything (like : woa dude, it's not the Oscars or something, chill out). And little by little, I started to think it didn't have much to do with being praised, that's just striving to live as I think it's better to live. To live a life I'll me content with when the grim reaper will come and all praises won't mean anything anymore.

My therapist thinks it's not really an issue as long as it doesn't cause myself pain (which it does because I'm deaf to my own needs 50% of the times).

But I don't see a satisfying way to live apart from that.

One potential misinterpretation I'd like to prevent. It's a very strong drive, but it doesn't make me blind. It really doesn't happen a lot but whenever I'm angry, I'm not feeling guilty. I know why I feel this, it's just that I didn't have any other way to manage a situation/feeling. I'll just strive to do better next time by trying to modify the situation so that anger will not be the most probable answer.

Do you find it weird? Anyone adopting this kind of behavior? Maybe everyone does. It may sound a bit megalomaniac, like hey I'm exceptional, but it really isn't what I mean. To my own eyes, I'm not a bad or a good person. I'm just trying to be what I want. If somebody tries to be someone different, it's all fine by me.

TL;DR : Is having high moral standards for one's self weird or toxic? Does my message actually sound megalomaniac?

 

Source : am French and have been laughing about this since I was 8yo. Recently read about the prefect response and it's now even better.

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On prison abolition (lemmy.world)
submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by needthosepylons@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
 

You're a prison abolitionist. You're in a high stakes discussion where you have to answer seriously and be convincing.

Someone asks you : "yeah, but what are we to do with people breaking the law, then? What will you replace prisons with ?"

What will you answer?

Edit : Thanks a lot for your answer, they were very interesting and reflecting different ways to frame a world without prisons.

Except from one or two edgelord hot takes, of course.

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A story beside (lemmy.world)
submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by needthosepylons@lemmy.world to c/games@lemmy.world
 

Today, I'd like to recommend everyone who likes a deep and tragic story to take a look at A Story Beside.

As a disclaimer, I am not affiliated at all with the studio or promo. None of that. I don't even have a yt channel to promote.

I just happened to play this game 2 years ago and it still haunts me with both joy and sadness.

To make it clear how much I loved it : I played it on the high seas, finished it, knew I was never going to play it again (for me, that's the kind of story based/narrative game you only play once), and still bought it on Steam the day after and bought it for a few friends.

While the gameplay is simple and the gfx are nothing to write home about (rpg maker, my first game of the kind), the story is superb and highly emotional. It has a simple point and click interface (definitely NOT my type of games), choices with heavy consequences and mostly non genderlocked romance, IIRC.

But what cracked my heart the most us the VA. It's beautiful behind words, haunting and powerful. It made me understand how VA is important in a game. Some sentences from this game are still with me to this day and randomly pop in my thoughts.

So do yourself a favor and play this one of these days.. Just make sure you have someone you trust close enough, because it can be really heartbreaking sometimes. Or beautiful. Or happy. Depends on your perspective.

Edit : typo in the title of the post >.<

P. S. : If I had one criticism about this game, it would be that some choices are quite obscure. A little thing you said, did or forgot to do at one point can have cataclysmic consequences later on, and it can be frustrating because back then, you didn't even know you were making a choice. I started blind, got a heartbreaking story event, restarted from the beginning with a guide to avoid the.. err.. bad endings.

 
 

Hello everyone I am an avid practitioners of martial arts. Started with Judo and Jiu Jitsu. Then my health and phisical condition degraded due to external causes. I switched to Aikido for three years and now Tai chi chuan, which I am now strongly committing to.

Aside from obvious positive effects (balance and agility) I wonder what you all think about inner martial arts.

I tend to ingest as little taoist folklore as I can, not because I think it's not interesting, but I want to avoid the exotic sounding mysticism tailored to impress westerners as a kind of new age marketing strategy. Fortunately, my teacher is a medical doctor working in the field of work related injuries.

I know I love Tai Chi Chuan and I truly mean to get better at it, but I can't ignore all the... weird stuff connected to it (no, Mr. Grand Master, I refuse to think that you single handedly pushed 10 people by the power of chi mastery). At the same time, I've been impressed by how, sometimes, finding adequate balance can make you able to sustain a strong push without even making active use of muscular strength.

So Il just wondering how you feel about this (or the other) inner martial art.

For me, it's a demanding and rewarding practice, full of great health and self discipline benefits and a few truly impressive perks, but with a..weird decorum I can't begin to understand.

 

Do people trust Ghidra? How come it's been developed by the NSA? From an outsider perspective, that sounds so weird!

Thanks in advance to anyone able to enlighten me!

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