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[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 46 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys are.

(I don't and have never used autocorrect on this phone, but I can still affirm their existence)

[–] zloubida@lemmy.world 38 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys are encrypted

[–] wyrmroot@programming.dev 37 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning at six?

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 months ago

That’s exactly what I got…

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[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 31 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If I try to do a longer one, I get

Femboys are a good idea

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago

both true ^-^

[–] sakakicchi@lemmy.sdf.org 26 points 2 months ago

femboys are overrated

femboys aren't gay

femboys are the future

this sounds like someone's journey of self-acceptance

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Femboys are the same as the US

.... Currently in crisis?

[–] optissima@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 months ago

... looking really vulnerable rn

[–] YourMomsTrashman@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

femboys are the best thing to do

[–] Landless2029@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the most important part of a modern society

Well I'll be damned...

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are a positive side effect on unixporn

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago

bahahahahah

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[–] rarWars@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the only one I have in mind

So true lmao

[–] quantenzitrone@lemmings.world 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are the most important part in this conversation IMO. Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world. Femboys are not as great in their day and age and they can only do it because it was the first thing in your life.

[–] quantenzitrone@lemmings.world 10 points 2 months ago

FUTO keyboard btw

[–] Numuruzero@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you doing tonight and then we might go to a tire place

[–] Opisek@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

Sounds like a great evening.

[–] festnt@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 months ago

femboys are

(i dont have suggestions in my keyboard. i do have shift and ctrl though so i'm happy)

[–] SuluBeddu@feddit.it 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you ok to come to the shop for a coffee and a coffee and a drink with a friend who is more than welcome to come to the house and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and

[–] not_IO@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago

damn it layed out the entire date

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 10 points 2 months ago

Femboys are good and easy to use for the day and then the Pentagon.

[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a good thing

My phone approves, good phone 👍

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best things to go through.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you still in the office now

Huh, get back to work, femboys!

[–] miraclerandy@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting

[–] crazyminner@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not...

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[–] Linkyu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today, and the world is a lot better than it was before the internet existed, and the internet was a lot better than it was before the internet was invented.

From a FUTO Keyboard that's still in early training, FWIW.

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[–] H4mi@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are not in poster en av dem som har det bra

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[–] Obeca@pawb.social 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going for a walk with me today?

[–] CatZoomies@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting or are you going to be there at the same time as me and you and I are going to be together for a little bit and then we can go to the park and then we can meet you there and then we can just go to the pool and then we can do the pool and then we can do it when you get home and then we can do that and then we can do that together and then we can do that after that and then we can go to the park and then we can go to go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park

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[–] 5190tent@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are panicked

[–] Ghost33313@beehaw.org 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are so damn backward, and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq. (It repeats)

The views of my phone do not reflect my own views.

[–] Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best 👌

[–] Lojcs@lemm.ee 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today

[–] introvertcatto@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a very good place to live in

[–] onnekas@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 months ago

feboys are confidential

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be a major outbreak by early December

[–] trouble@lemm.ee 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Tfw you don't use google keyboard and don't have suggestions 😔

Femboys are cool though

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[–] Pencilnoob@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are good at the bottom and I think 🤔

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[–] Marty_TF@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 months ago

femboys are not a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that...

what

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are:

overrated

(are)n’t gay

the future

[–] ellen@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are in den meisten Ländern die größte Stadt der Erde.

(In English: „femboys are in most countries the biggest city on Earth.“)

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[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the ones in charge of deciding the speakers decided to not let them work

[–] Plaidboy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get the covid vaccine? For the next week or so I can get it out of the office in the morning but I don't know if it will be a good time for me to come over and get it out of the way and I can get it out of the way and I can get it out of the way...

Punctuation added by me. I do not have access to the covid vaccine, but I do suggest all USA femboys (and everyone else) get vaccinated asap as I worry all vaccines may be illegal in the USA soon.

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