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What is a personality

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[–] audaxdreik@pawb.social 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Spider warning (it's a jumping spider, so it's tiny): https://www.youtube.com/shorts/59fZMRVoHCc

Certainly nothing to the level of people or even cats and dogs, but handling does improve personality. Jumping spiders will often recognize their tanks and immediate location as safe territory. They will also start to recognize their handlers as the food bringers and "beg".

I understand if it's still offputting if you're not into creep crawlies, but jumping spiders are sometimes referred to as "octokittens" due to their tendency to be tiny little divas who sit around and clean themselves like cats. It might look a little scary, but when they start waving their front legs around like that they aren't rearing up in defense like a tarantula, that's their "give me uppies" pose. You'll see a lot of videos of them online leaping at the camera; that's not them attacking, that's them treating all of life like a jungle gym. Personally I think they're adorable and I recommend watching more videos from people who love them if you want to see more personality.

EDIT: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/gEMPLrWh35g , tell me that's not a cat!

EDIT 2: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/DZkaLAoREWo , I think my favorite thing about jumping spiders is you can tell how smart they are. The way they look around and scan their environment and really seem to see things and take it in. You can almost hear the tiny gears turning in their heads as they consider things.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/a-QpxmSD9jo , they'll also chase laser pointers like a cat.

Endlessly fascinating animals to me, I love them.

[–] ieatpwns@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Jumping spiders are my favorite after reading children of time

[–] wabasso@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m so thankful the internet showed me how cute they are. The ones I’m familiar with are too small to see the facial features and proportions. But now that I know I think they’re super cute.

I don’t mind spiders at all but I can totally understand why people have arachnophobia. That’s why I find it hilarious that there’s this one species, a “jumping” species no less, that magically can flip from grotesque to cute.

[–] UnfortunateShort@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I really can't stand spiders except for jumping spiders. They have caused me to become a lot less hostile towards spiders in general