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[–] Triumph@fedia.io 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

When someone disagrees with you, you have the opportunity to more clearly define what you think. This might mean changing your mind to a greater or lesser degree; it could mean understanding more completely why you hold the view you already have. If the votes show that a lot of people disagree with you, well, conventional wisdom is often enough not very wise.

In my experience, fediverse people have been more reasonable than reddit people - but you're going to find petulant children on any public forum.

[–] n7gifmdn@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I agree with all of this except the derogatory use of the c-word.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 2 points 5 days ago

Conventional? God dammit, I fucking did it again.