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[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I think it varies per platform. LinkedIn fosters a disgusting ass-kissing "work comes first" culture. Facebook turned people into one-upping d-bags with highly curated feeds to showcase their constant "winning at life" bullshit. X/Twitter was a left bubble then a right bubble. Reddit is enshittified beyond recognition. It all sucks, just in different ways.

But perhaps the common factors are a sense of isolation and a disconnection from reality.

[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

... and a tendency, even on Fedi, of surrounding oneself in an information bubble

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I still the info bubble thing to be bullshit. People hung out in places they liked in meatspace and lived in information bubbles before the internet. Its called a group of friends. If somone was well read they would have a nuanced view and most people depended on having a few noteworthy people to ask about complicated things. Open to everything on the internet means rooting around in a pile of shit at this point and the more you cut the shit away the easier it will be to find the rare gem.

[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

yes but now the majority of social interaction for the majority of people is... online

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 3 days ago

thats my point. they should do just like they did in meatspace when online. No one hung with a jerk who came into a discussion with insults or such. Blocking is like avoiding someone annoying and following is like regularly haning out with friends and subscribing is like a place you regularly went to.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don't get why anyone is even posting on linkedin. its purpose is to have a circle of people I have actually worked with or done business with and I like getting and giving recommendations especially when I or someone leaves the company.

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Same. I never post anything on there. I have replied a few times to a few former coworkers who have messaged me on there, that's it. If the convo goes anywhere we move it elsewhere.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 4 days ago

the messaging is nice for job searching. sorta nice to initially communicate on their before polluting your email.