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Original question text by @CozyLorraine@lemmy.world

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I just like Lemmy more.

[–] doc@fedia.io 7 points 1 day ago

I had been though it all, having joined about a year after the site first launched. I have witnessed multiple evolutions of the broader community and management. I could no longer support what I knew was coming next, so I bailed after 17 years due to the API fiasco.

Now I visit only by chance on searches and RSS subscriptions to a couple super niche subreddits that are more likely to disappear than migrate anywhere else.

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I've still got an account. But I jumped over during the API debacle. I'm sure if I stayed I would have been banned for commenting on the Luigi situation, or calling Musk and Trump out for the dimwitted little Nazi fucks they are.

But I'm here! A proud little lemming just feeling blessed AF to be here with all you nerds!

[–] DoucheAsaurus@fedia.io 8 points 1 day ago

I nuked my 11 year old account when I moved here.

Wave of the future!

[–] jeena@piefed.jeena.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm not banned, I was banned in r/Korea for posting a link to my own peertube instance but nowhere else.

I just don't feel that me trying to make some rich guy even more rich makes a lot of sense when they behave so shitty to us.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

most "location" related subs have overtaken by right wingers, its a ban waiting to happen to most people. my blue area subs was taken over by RWers for a while.

[–] eric5949@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Reddit has been getting worse and eventually they just stopped showing people my comments so I deleted my account. Pretty much the next day the warnings for upvotes started coming in.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

sounds like you got shadowbanned to me, when people stop responding to you, or nobody can see your comments thats what happens. you can check your profile while logged out, you know its shadowbanned if its says "cant find this user info:

[–] eric5949@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

They could see everything prior to like 3 days before I deleted the account. It was the last straw for me.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago

I'm on mbin mostly. The japan-focused subreddits for legal, finance, etc. have so far refused to move. Once they move, I will be done with reddit entirely

Lemmy is a much nicer environment overall, so i moved here

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 day ago

I like lemmy more and decided to get my accounts banned in reddit after I started using lemmy.

[–] echo@lemmings.world 8 points 1 day ago

I over-wrote and then deleted my nearly 20 years of posts/comments and then deleted my account.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 7 points 1 day ago

I came here during the API thing then went back because it’s quiet here. Then I came back because I got into selfhosting and now I’m more dug in.

Idk why I would get banned from Reddit

[–] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

I was enjoying it till a post I randomly clicked on showed a screenshot of a post I made here and that post was apparently removed by mods...

Assuming it was the one I said everything is going to Putin's plan--- tank the economy, billionaires lap it up, the US lose allies, and the next step is just taking orders right from Russia. Apparently that was "controversial"? Lol

[–] MudMan@fedia.io 6 points 1 day ago

Never been on Reddit. I tried Masto as a Twitter alternative, figured Masto is a bad Twitter alternative but found this. It doesn't feel much like Reddit, but it does feel like old 90s forums, which I consider a feature, not a bug.

[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Left due to the crowd amassed for my country's sub. I became friend with a few regulars there when the sub is small, but these day they're significantly more and more people with a lack of common sense and logical thinking gathered there it's hard to find new friend, to the point the friends i met just decided to lurk or quit. No more fun.

Then API fiasco happened and since i hate the official app so much as it's significantly slower with horrible UI, it's a final push for me to make the jump.

I wouldn't say i like lemmy more, but it's the one i tolerate now. If the main dev became unbearable then i jump again.

[–] libra00@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was briefly perma banned but it was bullshit so it was lifted on appeal, but it was wake up call. Reddit admins are getting kinda fashy so I decided after 14 years it was time to leave.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

musk has been pressuring reddit to "ban anti-musk and trump" content.

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[–] Norin@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I left Reddit because the algorithm really wanted me to be angry and afraid.

The world is a shitty enough place. I don’t need the advertisers stressing me out even more.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Shit you ain't need an algorithm for that.

[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Lemmy more. The default comment sorting means there's a chance that my comment will be at the top and therefore discussion can happen. On reddit, past a certain amount of comments, I don't bother. No one will see it.

Like many here, I left reddit during the whole API debacle, and I was doing really good about avoiding reddit for a while, but there's way less people here, way less communities, and while yes, I could start the communities I'd like to see on Lemmy, I just don't think there are enough users to have engaging conversations yet. For that reason, I maintain my reddit account, so that I can have those conversations and connections that I can't get here. I hope it changes some day and we can grow our numbers here.

[–] Kurtagag@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I got perma banned so Im here now! And now I like it better

[–] jewbacca117@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I went scorched earth on reddit

[–] Zoboomafoo@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 day ago

Not yet. I did get a comment removed but successfully appealed for saying what citizens do to kings. The appeal was me saying it was in a historical context, of course ;)

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I still have my reddit account, but I nearly exclusively use it for a closed, non-public group I am in for nearly a decade.

But I have moved my focus to Lemmy.

[–] Delvin4519@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I halted all of my posting to reddit during the API fiasco. Lurked on Lemmy until I needed to start blocking communities and then created an account to do so.

Most of the niche and local communities (most notably r/IWantOut) are still on that sinking ship though, and not here :(. I only visit to see what those niche communities are up to from time to time, but do not post or get any news from there.

Of the communities that are highly active on Lemmy, I do think the content is pretty good and is enough to replace reddit. I feel like I get to hear what's going on without the censorship on that sinking ship. There's just enough activity such that the more general communities have enough new content to look at by browsing the "all" tab on the homepage and in the communities, but there's still not enough activity or users for me to browse through "local" or "subscribed" yet.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

you get censored on reddit for discussing bans, outside REDDIT approved subs. i went on r/shadowban and alot of people are getting shadowban out of the blue. from what ive gathered, if you made an account havnt posted in a long time and then you suddenly post you can get shadowbanned so fast, because it automatically thinks your a bot in some cases.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Wanted to quit Reddit and the censoring of anything critical of Elon game me the impetus.

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

I left and blocked reddit on my network after the landed gantry debacle. I'm not banned but I might as well be.

[–] Brutticus@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I Was banned a while ago for hate speech against cops. I lurk sometimes with libreddit

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

some subs are actually owned by former and current LEO, it make sense. the most famous one being legal advice, and i suspect almost all the video subs are owned by them(the ones usually do with crime related videos)

I like Lemmy better. There's a lot more effort to have value when you post and have conversations rather than arguments.

But the porn collection over here isn't great yet.

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

With the recent US autocratization, its a good idea to keep a maintream profile (such as reddit) without any politics on the account (a decoy). Just in case the authorities start asking for social medias. No social media would make you look "suspicious". And since Lemmy is only used by leftists, you're gonna look guilty by association.

I'm honestly not surprised if EU countries start to ask for social medias in the future, authoritarian surveillance behaviors is not limited to fascism, even "liberal" countries use mass surveillance. I have a bad feeling "Chat Control" is gonna pass, it only goes downhill from there.

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[–] TTH4P@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

I still have my reddit account for niche stuff, but I overwrote all my comments with gibberish so they couldn't use my words to train anything. I could definitely give up my reddit if push came to shove.

[–] Korrok@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

I like lemmy's culture more, but I still browse reddit

[–] TheTimeKnife@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I use both. I like some aspects of each better. Reddit mostly has some specific large communities I can't find on lemmy due to size, or lemmys demographics just not enjoying that topic.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm on both, I like both. Been liking Reddit less and less over the years, I expect at some point I'll stop going, but for now it's still okay.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

i was trying to becareful on reddit, in niche sub, only took 1 mod to remove my comment to get shadowbanned.

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