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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Got banned from reddit for being pro ukraine and saying the german trainsystem management structure needs to be destroyed and rebuild a new.

So yeah only lemmy for me

[–] lemmyingly@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Banned from a sub Reddit, but you wouldn't be banned from Reddit site wide - unless you off the scale heinous.

As much as I dislike Reddit's direction and have had site wide temporary bans myself, i find it hard to believe you were properly banned for what you described. I was temporary banned because I was flaunting that I wasn't abiding by Reddit's rules, and even then, it was only a 2 week ban on a single account.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Nope got banned from all of reddit. First a few days. Then right after those were over a week. Then permanent.

It was all right after the previouse ban ran out. Can show the ban messages if i can find them. I know I send them to friends to laught about

Edit: i got banned for inciting violence all 3 times

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Just Lemmy for me. They pissed me the fuck off and i'm a stubborn bastard.

[–] monocles@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I switched to Lemmy after Reddit killed bacon reader. Never looked back. joined world and discovered defederation drama. Joined lemm.ee. now I'm on .zip. I don't want my instance dictating what I see. Even if it is the trifecta.

I use Mastodon also. I occasionally watch YouTube, but I don't post, and I definitely don't engage in the comments section.

Have not used Facebook in a decade. Not interested in tiktok or shorts. Occasionally pushed to imgur for the memes.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

i made one on .today i posted a couple times, but i will be moving over after ee shutsdown, and possibly make a new instance account like piefed.

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[–] vga@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Reddit has some sort of permabanned me, so I cannot get even new accounts there. So you guys get to enjoy me here, yay!

They unfortunately still have the critical mass, and even though Lemmy is getting better on that front, there's just so much more stuff on Reddit.

[–] Rookwood@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 day ago

I only use lemmy. I'll need an alternative for Discord soon.

[–] hornedfiend@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago

80% Lemmy, 20% reddit with rdx app.

I don't think it's particularly hardcore myself, I've just been moving away from platforms as they've been enshittifying. I was on reddit over ten years but left over the API thing and haven't been back. I stopped using Facebook a few years ago and haven't missed it at all. I stopped using twitter when musk bought it, tried using mastodon for a bit but it was kinda barren so I'm on bluesky now. I still check in on mastodon occasionally. I'll move on from these platforms too if they turn to shit. It's easy to get caught in a kinda sunk cost thing with platforms, but really it doesn't matter how long you've been there, how many Facebook friends you have, how much karma, whatever - if it turns to shit it's time to move on, and best go early to avoid the rush!

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 172 points 2 days ago (10 children)

I didn't leave Reddit, Reddit disabled the app I used to access it for over 10 years when they disabled API access. Figured they didn't want or need my contributions anymore.

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[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

Depends what you mean by social media. I watch YouTube similar to watching TV. Doesn't feel anything like Mastodon or Lemmy to me, you know what I mean?

[–] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That's me! I cut Reddit it when they turned off RIF, and never looked back. I also add -reddit to searches so I don't give them any traffic

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I've stopped contributing on Reddit a long time ago and only visit niche communities as a news feeds mostly.

I've actually been working on scraping powered rss feed generator of my own to avoid visiting reddit all together but turns out its a bit more than a weekend project to put all of the pieces together.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't have an account on other social media.

Once in a while I do searches like "alternative to X site:reddit.com" for software, movie recommendations, etc. So I do use it, just don't participate. Mostly because it's designed to breed hate and distrust.

[–] gleb@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago
[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I had seven billion updoots or whatever on reddit. I haven't used it for 2 years.

Also, why is that "hardcore"? You might want to reevaluate your relationshio with social media and computing. If you can't disconnect from it that sounds unhealthy.

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[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I only visit for my niche subs, and even then it's maybe once or twice a month at most. I just check the top posts for the month, and then leave. In and out. 20 minute adventure.

[–] 0x0@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

I've only ever marginaly used reddit, ages ago.
What's so hardcore about preferring social media over algorithms?

[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Only lemmy, I'm too spicy for corporate social media. Now if I said insane racist shit in support of trump, I'd be fine. But that's not me. I'm pointedly in favor of personal freedoms. Which is NOT in line with the end user agreements.

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[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 12 points 1 day ago

I used to use purely Reddit. I stopped after the API nonsense. Now I'm purely on lemmy. I have no interest in any of the others.

[–] Zomg@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think I'd say in 90% Lemmy, 10% reddit right now to view certain discussions only

[–] Nightsoul@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I exclusively use Lemmy on my phone, only time I use reddit if I'm searching something and it pops up in the results because it usually has the answer or gets me closer to it

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 1 day ago

I use Lemmy 99.999% of the time. I asked a plumbing question on Reddit, some radio questions a few months back, and that's really all I can remember. I don't browse it. I don't avoid it if search results go there though. But I don't seek it out often at all.

[–] sommerset@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 day ago

After reddit apps were killed, using reddit became a chore.
I can now only use reddit in Firefox mobile or desktop and its not super polished for mobile.

Lemmy boost app is much more polished so I naturally gravitate to it over reddit. Also creating new accounts after bans is A lot easier

[–] crash_thepose@lemmy.ml 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I have a reddit and IG account but don't look at them. The only social media apps I have on my phone are for lemmy and mastodon.

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[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 16 points 1 day ago

I gave up on everything except Reddit in 2017 and gave up on Reddit with the api stuff going on.

So I guess I am that "hardcore".

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 108 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

I wouldn't consider myself hardcore for it, but yeah I only use Lemmy. Nothing else lol

Used to use reddit until they pulled their bullshit with 3rd party apps.

Edit: another answer made me reconsider what it means to "use" reddit, so yeah if I'm searching for information on Google or something and there's an answer on Reddit I'll read it, but I don't log in or communicate on there at all.

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[–] AlphaOmega@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I stopped using Reddit when I switched to Lemmy.

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[–] grumpo_potamus@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Thanks for the reminder to go delete my old comments and posts. Reddit is dead to me. I stopped using it two years ago. I'll occasionally go there if there's a legit looking search result for what I'm looking for, but I don't bother logging in or interacting with the platform. Reddit is blocked by my work, which is typically what I'm searching for from there so it's useless anyways.

[–] Resonosity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I am one that only uses Lemmy

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I use Lemmy and Mastodon (and sometimes Pixelfed), but have currently a Bluesky-phase. I also noticed a lot of anxiety when using bluesky regarding current events, so i'm thinking of dropping it again, i can cope better with lemmy, much less hectic.

[–] noodlesreborn@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The only thing I have that's mainstream is Bsky. Outside of that, I've been fedi exclusive for some years now. I tried to make a Tumblr, but I forgot just how much corpo ran networks suck. The moment I was hit with adverts for their crappy membership and shop, I tapped out. I have a Facebook that's only occasionally used to get contact information from old friends and family, but aside from that I'm always logged out.

That's about it, I think. I consume Youtube through the web client and 3rd party mobile clients without an account, and I get around other sites with similar methods.

[–] Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Permabanned from reddit and don't feel like going through the hassle of bypassing it. I still browse every now and then for niche content that just doesn't exist on Lemmy but otherwise I'm on here exclusively.

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[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Reddit stopped being mainstream for me since the API bullshit, so... hardcore I am, guess I

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