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[–] naught101@lemmy.world 44 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Shit is interesting right now. We're at (or approaching) the climax of western society. I wanna see how the story resolves.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Lol, everyone's thought their generation is the end times.

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 15 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I mean, they didn't have climate change looming overhead.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

When I was a boy we all knew the world would end in nuclear war.

[–] tisktisk@piefed.social 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Kinda still is tho right? Not like we knew wrong lol

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago

It is taking longer than expected, though.

[–] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Because if there are two things that are comparable, it's the mercurial whims of man vs the unstoppable force that is nature. And much like humans, nature can be reasoned with and convinced to not destroy everything.

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[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Some were right, and the last one will also be.

What you're doing is called inductive reasoning, and it's not very bright.

"Lol, every day I wake up alive. Therefore, I will never die."

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[–] hungprocess@lemmy.sdf.org 32 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

“I meant,” said Ipslore bitterly, “what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?”

Death thought about it.

CATS, he said eventually, CATS ARE NICE.

- Terry Pratchett, Sourcery

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 weeks ago

on the other hand...

"If cats looked like frogs we'd realize what nasty, cruel little bastards they are. Style. That's what people remember."

- Terry Pratchett, Lords and Ladies

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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

There’s a list of people I’m trying to outlive. If I don’t outlive them, I’ll be sad.

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Food, empathetic people, smiles, cute animals, those little glimpses through the fog, or if all else fails, spite.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

if all else fails, spite.

Yes. I've put up with too much crap not to get to become a cranky old person ranting unintelligible bullshit, someday.

I plan for it to be relatively pleasant unintelligible bullshit. But unintelligible bullshit it will still be.

[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When the scientists wanted to get the first computers connected to what would become the internet, they plugged in special parts to let the computer audibly scream at a phone! It was loud and horrible and I miss those old screams.

Some humans were able to memorize those computer screams and could scream them well enough themself to trick the phone into doing all sorts of things.

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

Beautiful!

I'm going to use this.

And I'll add that they made an episode of "Doctor Who" about it.

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[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Don't underestimate food. You can be frustrated at life - but imagine being frustrated at life with a beak full of pizza.

[–] Kn1ghtDigital@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago

One day at a time. You're doing great.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 20 points 2 weeks ago

Wanting to live long enough to see the obituaries of those who are making the world a terrible place. (NB: Not specifically wishing anyone dead, only pointing out that time catches up with everyone, and many of the people I'm referring to are quite old.)

I had other points but they're reasons not to stop living as opposed to being reasons to live. One of those being morbid curiosity. And let's face it, the one I started out with is pretty borderline.

[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 weeks ago

Sunrises. Mountains. Marmots. Fresh pow.

Sunsets. Beaches. Tropical drinks.

Just a walk around the block. That cute dog.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah dogs. I don't have my own, but even every street dog I come across makes my life at least borderline bearable.

[–] dwindling7373@feddit.it 14 points 2 weeks ago

Goofy people near and far

[–] HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 weeks ago

Wonderful coffee, sitting in a quiet room reading a book, and snuggling with my dog.

Another, completely separate answer: eating pussy.

[–] kbal@fedia.io 12 points 2 weeks ago

I had some really good chicken curry today. (Temporarily off the vegetarian diet for complicated reasons, but it was good. Preferable to be alive when something like that comes along.)

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 11 points 2 weeks ago

Possibilities. So no I don't have anything in particular but im not ready to leave yet and if I do I hope it has some meaning. There are certainly things left to enjoy. Im big on simple things. Walks and nature.

[–] Daze@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 weeks ago

One Piece hasn't yet concluded, so.

[–] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

Seeing the end of israel

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

The time period between the actual collapse and when you finally die will be rather exhilarating I think.

[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago

So damned much, there's so much to see and do!

I will die before I've read half the books on my list, scritched even a fraction of the goodest dogs who need scritches and eaten at each of my city's amazing lil restaurants.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 8 points 2 weeks ago

If you truly have nothing else, spite can work wonders as a motivator....

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

Friday, I'm going to a concert, Post Modern Jukebox.

[–] hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I wish I had grand reasons to live but turns out it's easier if it's primitive. Eating tasty food, watching fun videos, petting cute animals.

Let politics be politics and philosophy be philosophy and turn to the small things for a bit.

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[–] pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 weeks ago

I have a list of hobbies I want to do and so I live to have fun

[–] remon@ani.social 7 points 2 weeks ago
[–] PixellatedDave@feddit.uk 6 points 2 weeks ago

My wife and my parents. My wife is a bit older than me. When my parents and wife have gone then I can check out.

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

Finding out what's next.

[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

I'm genuinely drawing blanks here.

[–] moakley@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My kids. But I'm already living for them. You gotta find someone else's kids to live for.

[–] anarchy79@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Feels like kicking the can down the road. I would not want to be a kid growing up in this world seeing what it has become, and the dire fucking future ahead.

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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Survival instincts is forcing me to live... I don't have a choice... 🤷‍♂️

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[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

World War 3. It will usher in the Federation.

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[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 5 points 2 weeks ago

Good question. My answer is a little pathetic. It's partially the new media that drops. Invincible season 4 is worth hanging on for. Much less pathetic, my friends. Spite is incredibly powerful as well. Another related thing. I have to experience the stuff that dropped that I was never allowed to experience (mormon family), and am too young to have experienced. I have 21 seasons of South Park to watch. I have the God of War games. Rdr1. The Boondocks. Kotor. The GTA series. Skyrim (played Oblivion remaster, that was cool). Undertale/Deltarune. Elden Ring. Ghost of Tsushima. Soulframe. Warframe. Dark Souls. So, that should be at least a few years. There's always some joy to be found in the creations of others and yourself.

[–] euchriduk@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sunrises and sunsets, fresh air, sex, love, meeting new people, walking in nature, meeting animals, feeling emotions, marvelling at the wonder of your own existence, fighting oppression, being part of the solution, forming or joining communities, reading books, playing games, bouncing a ball, whistling, art, music films, dancing, quietly thinking, solving problems, being creative, chatting, making friends, falling in love, smelling flowers and herbs, eating great food, exercising, helping to bring about positive change even in small ways, laughter, riding a bike/scooter/horse/unicycle, painting, crayons, massage, feeding the hungry, helping others, finding peace, swimming in the ocean or lakes, climbing a tree, growing food.... And this doesn't cover a 100th of it. Times are hard, so many things are bad, but there's always a lot to live for.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Outdoors, if you live in a place with natural beauty. Getting out every day and walking to my local rose garden (it was very close, I was lucky) during the pan did wonders for my keeping it together.

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