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Bruh ๐
I feel offended and personally attacked, but I agree
I miss vBulletin emoticons.
The unicode ones are lame.
I use the voyager app to browse and it has this little text faces that, imo, are better the emojis. ๏ฝ(ใคห0ห)ใค๏ฝกโ
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I use regular emojis, occasionally.
And I still like "Dongers"! I'll use it if I want!
(โฏยฐโกยฐ)โฏ๏ธต โปโโป
That's like greeting a toddler and asking parents why she's lice-free.
I don't really care why, just glade it's the case.
I use them almost exclusively as reactions or to convey tone โ and even then, the music notes get used most often, to indicate singing
since lemmy lacks reactions (beyond voting), I rarely have cause
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I actually prefer emoji-lite conversation, meaning emoji is there to enhance the comment/text, and not mere spamming of one. Like for example
"i don't think i can do that ๐ " kinda feels lighthearted with the emoji than without it. But "i don't think i can do that ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ" is just pure obnoxious, to me at least. I'm not gonna chastise anyone for doing that of course.
Also i do prefer kaomoji more แ( แ )แ
Where do you get your kaomoji?
The voyager app for lemmy has a selection of them for you to quick access.
Woah. I use voyager and never saw this feature. Thanks (ยฐโฝยฐ)/
No specific site, i just search kaomoji and then copy those i like, then on swiftkey i pin those copied kaomoji on the clipboard so it's saved. Sometime i create one that i can't find on those site, like this one
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It sort of have different feel as this shrug commonly found
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Haha I see. I do the same but I steal from my friend and pin them to my HeliBoard.
Emojis are for the girls and the homies. Sorry, I donโt know yโall like that.
I've softened on them over time (I used to HATE posts with them as it felt weird/immature/lazy to me), but I'm still not big on using them on platforms like mbin. I still use my emoticons and the odd kaomoji, but I tend not to use emoji here. If I see a ton in one post, though, I still just skip whatever it is, typically.
I'm quite happy to not see emojis spammed everywhere, I can deal with an emoticon or two - more so if actually useful for setting tone - but much more than that and you're pushing it.
I tend to associate posts peppered with emojis with either immaturity or those out of their depth when it comes to technology. I'm sure it's not always true but it does seem to correlate well with either kids or those whose typing method includes just tapping on the emoji whenever their phone keyboard suggests it.
Reddit hivemind deep rooted into our brains
Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez
( อกยฐฤนฬฏ อกยฐ )โญโฉโฎ
I see them as a crutch for people without a large grasp of their spoken language. Emojis are then new "very".
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This will be the most infuriating upvote I give today. Congratulations, and good job.
Emojis are for chatting/texting. I don't even want to see them here.
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Because they make you seem like an AI or spammer or a boomer.
It's "boomer" to use emoji? The fuck?
Emoji were democratized to unhipness, there was a movie about it and all
I don't use emoji because they're hip, I use them because they have a function. ๐คจ๐คทโโ๏ธ
The stupid Facebook posts with an over sized ๐คฃ about a mild joke.
Well yeah, overreacting is pretty cringe-inducing, I agree. But not the use of emoji as a concept, IMO. I think conveying emotion or intent or tone using them is good for communication in general. Makes things more personal and clear.
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Because my millennial ass still uses emoticons :l
Same. Old habits die hard X^D, I'm trying to keep things fresh ocationally adding a lil nose.
Stay true, sister
Lmao I use emojis alot of the time
But not every comment is appropriate for emojis, and I feel like overusing it makes me look like a bot or a weirdo, so I don't do it unless it really fits the tone of the comment
I've had someone question whether I'm a bot or not because I use so many emojis ๐ฅฒ
Well are you? ๐
It's kind of funny how I was recently thinking that Lemmy and other Fediverse services seem to be at least tolerant of occasional emoji use. Just don't overdo it and you'll probably be fine. ๐
Compared to, say, Reddit. If you used emoji there, you either got murdered by the spam filter and you will never succeed in your life and you don't know why (there are other ways to trigger it, of course), or it goes through, and the fedoras shall descend upon you.
I was going to say, I think it's carry-over from Reddit, which is vehemently anti-emoji.
I think they are fine, even helpful, punctuating a larger comment, but I think the fear is tolerance leads to posts that just consist of ๐
or ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
which are ambiguous (is that agreement or mockery?) and just trash quality content that contributes nothing to the discourse.
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That made me realise of one thing, if I'm on PC I have no idea how to write an emoji. I don't even know if they're available, I imagine they are, but not a clue of how.
I think this is probably a big part of it actually. If you're inserting emojis you're probably on a phone, so you're probably interacting with the discussion in a quite different way than if you were on a PC. It's not as comfortable to write longer, better-thought-out comments.
People pick up on these implications and judge people accordingly.