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Emojis and Lemmy (lemmy.world)
submitted 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) by oyzmo@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
 

Why are Lemmy posts and replies (almost?) emoji free? - I like the small emotion symbols, they add a softer human feel to things :]

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[โ€“] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Lemmy is full of boring old farts.

[โ€“] bigfondue@lemmy.world 2 points 38 minutes ago

Bruh ๐Ÿ’€

[โ€“] CaptnKarisma@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 hours ago

I feel offended and personally attacked, but I agree

[โ€“] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I miss vBulletin emoticons.

The unicode ones are lame.

[โ€“] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I use the voyager app to browse and it has this little text faces that, imo, are better the emojis. ๏ฝž(ใคห†0ห†)ใค๏ฝกโ˜†

(โŒโ– _โ– )

I use regular emojis, occasionally.

And I still like "Dongers"! I'll use it if I want!

(โ•ฏยฐโ–กยฐ)โ•ฏ๏ธต โ”ปโ”โ”ป

[โ€“] zecg@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

That's like greeting a toddler and asking parents why she's lice-free.

[โ€“] remon@ani.social 2 points 3 hours ago

I don't really care why, just glade it's the case.

[โ€“] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I use them almost exclusively as reactions or to convey tone โ€” and even then, the music notes get used most often, to indicate singing

since lemmy lacks reactions (beyond voting), I rarely have cause

[โ€“] Toes@ani.social 2 points 3 hours ago

๏ผผโ (โ ยฐโ oโ ยฐโ )โ ๏ผ

[โ€“] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 17 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I actually prefer emoji-lite conversation, meaning emoji is there to enhance the comment/text, and not mere spamming of one. Like for example

"i don't think i can do that ๐Ÿ˜…" kinda feels lighthearted with the emoji than without it. But "i don't think i can do that ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ" is just pure obnoxious, to me at least. I'm not gonna chastise anyone for doing that of course.

Also i do prefer kaomoji more แ••( แ› )แ•—

[โ€“] zerozaku@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Where do you get your kaomoji?

[โ€“] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

The voyager app for lemmy has a selection of them for you to quick access.

[โ€“] zerozaku@lemmy.world 1 points 35 minutes ago

Woah. I use voyager and never saw this feature. Thanks (ยฐโ–ฝยฐ)/

[โ€“] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

No specific site, i just search kaomoji and then copy those i like, then on swiftkey i pin those copied kaomoji on the clipboard so it's saved. Sometime i create one that i can't find on those site, like this one
ยฏ\_( ยด _ `)_/ยฏ

It sort of have different feel as this shrug commonly found

ยฏ\_(ใƒ„)_/ยฏ

[โ€“] zerozaku@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Haha I see. I do the same but I steal from my friend and pin them to my HeliBoard.

[โ€“] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 hours ago

Emojis are for the girls and the homies. Sorry, I donโ€™t know yโ€™all like that.

[โ€“] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 5 hours ago

I've softened on them over time (I used to HATE posts with them as it felt weird/immature/lazy to me), but I'm still not big on using them on platforms like mbin. I still use my emoticons and the odd kaomoji, but I tend not to use emoji here. If I see a ton in one post, though, I still just skip whatever it is, typically.

[โ€“] gnu@lemmy.zip 16 points 8 hours ago

I'm quite happy to not see emojis spammed everywhere, I can deal with an emoticon or two - more so if actually useful for setting tone - but much more than that and you're pushing it.

I tend to associate posts peppered with emojis with either immaturity or those out of their depth when it comes to technology. I'm sure it's not always true but it does seem to correlate well with either kids or those whose typing method includes just tapping on the emoji whenever their phone keyboard suggests it.

[โ€“] zerozaku@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit hivemind deep rooted into our brains

Fuck Reddit and Fuck Spez

( อกยฐฤนฬฏ อกยฐ )โ•ญโˆฉโ•ฎ

[โ€“] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I see them as a crutch for people without a large grasp of their spoken language. Emojis are then new "very".

[โ€“] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

This will be the most infuriating upvote I give today. Congratulations, and good job.

[โ€“] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Emojis are for chatting/texting. I don't even want to see them here.

[โ€“] craftrabbit@lemmy.zip 7 points 7 hours ago

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿฅบ

[โ€“] slazer2au@lemmy.world 29 points 11 hours ago (5 children)

Because they make you seem like an AI or spammer or a boomer.

[โ€“] victorz@lemmy.world 18 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

It's "boomer" to use emoji? The fuck?

[โ€“] zecg@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Emoji were democratized to unhipness, there was a movie about it and all

[โ€“] victorz@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

I don't use emoji because they're hip, I use them because they have a function. ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

[โ€“] slazer2au@lemmy.world 21 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

The stupid Facebook posts with an over sized ๐Ÿคฃ about a mild joke.

[โ€“] victorz@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

Well yeah, overreacting is pretty cringe-inducing, I agree. But not the use of emoji as a concept, IMO. I think conveying emotion or intent or tone using them is good for communication in general. Makes things more personal and clear.

[โ€“] hellothere@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)
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[โ€“] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 19 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Because my millennial ass still uses emoticons :l

[โ€“] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago

Same. Old habits die hard X^D, I'm trying to keep things fresh ocationally adding a lil nose.

[โ€“] FishFace@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago

Stay true, sister

[โ€“] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 22 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Lmao I use emojis alot of the time

But not every comment is appropriate for emojis, and I feel like overusing it makes me look like a bot or a weirdo, so I don't do it unless it really fits the tone of the comment

[โ€“] quaff@lemmy.ca 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I've had someone question whether I'm a bot or not because I use so many emojis ๐Ÿฅฒ

[โ€“] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Well are you? ๐Ÿ‘€

[โ€“] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 10 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It's kind of funny how I was recently thinking that Lemmy and other Fediverse services seem to be at least tolerant of occasional emoji use. Just don't overdo it and you'll probably be fine. ๐Ÿ˜

Compared to, say, Reddit. If you used emoji there, you either got murdered by the spam filter and you will never succeed in your life and you don't know why (there are other ways to trigger it, of course), or it goes through, and the fedoras shall descend upon you.

[โ€“] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 5 points 6 hours ago

I was going to say, I think it's carry-over from Reddit, which is vehemently anti-emoji.

I think they are fine, even helpful, punctuating a larger comment, but I think the fear is tolerance leads to posts that just consist of ๐Ÿ‘ or ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ which are ambiguous (is that agreement or mockery?) and just trash quality content that contributes nothing to the discourse.

[โ€“] pruwybn@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 11 hours ago

๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

[โ€“] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

That made me realise of one thing, if I'm on PC I have no idea how to write an emoji. I don't even know if they're available, I imagine they are, but not a clue of how.

[โ€“] FishFace@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

I think this is probably a big part of it actually. If you're inserting emojis you're probably on a phone, so you're probably interacting with the discussion in a quite different way than if you were on a PC. It's not as comfortable to write longer, better-thought-out comments.

People pick up on these implications and judge people accordingly.

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