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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 5 points 44 minutes ago

And yet they get all quiet and upset if you ask how many of their childhood friends are still alive

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 19 points 9 hours ago

"I was beaten as a kid and I 'turned out fine'" vibes

[–] HertzDentalBar@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 10 hours ago

Back in my grandma's day her sister drank a bottle of something in the barn and died. Back in my grandpas day he lost all the fingers on one hand in shop class.

And I can confirm "kids these days" is the general mentality of them now, and yet the shit my grandpa did as a kid/teen would of landed him in jail or on a list today.

[–] SGG@lemmy.world 40 points 12 hours ago

Back in my day kids played outside! Go to the park! Get some sun!

Good thing they turned the park into a parking lot for the newest CostCo/WalMart/Whatever. But why are all these kids playing on the road! I Can't even see the younger ones, why are they so short they can hide behind my oversized SUV!

[–] rayyy@piefed.social 32 points 13 hours ago

The rich love it when you pit young against old, black vs white, Muslim vs Christian, urban vs country and academics against labor.

[–] diptchip@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

It's kinda like people are hypocrites. Wouldn't pin it on a generation. "Do as I say, not as I do" I wear a helmet whenever I'm going over 15 on a scooter. Will never buy another bike.

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 109 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

From 1975 to 2015 "deaths are down 92 percent among children ages 15 and under, and down 44 percent annually across all cyclists." -- https://www.bicycling.com/news/a20043115/kids-bike-fatalities-down-92-percent-but-theres-a-catch/

"You" personally might have survived, but about 12-13 times as many kids died from "No helmet, no fear". (At least very least, 2x as many did.)

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 33 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

“Thus, the decline in bicyclist mortality among children might be attributable to fewer child bicycle trips rather than a result of safer road conditions,” the report reads.

[–] bss03@infosec.pub 12 points 13 hours ago

I believe the comparison was between to "good old days" and "now", so the 92% number remains valid, even if there are multiple contributing changes.

But, sure, maybe the 44% number is closer to correct.

[–] Glitterbomb@lemmy.world 45 points 16 hours ago

Ignore deaths and just do brain damage statistics. It will all start to make sense.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 133 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Haha we got fucking head injuries and it was fine because we could afford to raise an entire family on one salary from the spatula factory and that only requires 67 IQ points.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 54 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

A few head injuries wouldn’t separate you from the leaded gasoline poisoned brains of the masses.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 65 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Coming of age in the 1970s was peak Selection Bias.

Either Vietnam got you or the poisoned air and water got you or AIDS got you or traffic fatalities got you or poverty got you or you lived just long enough to tell your kids and grandkids that things were better when you were young.

[–] PalmTreeIsBestTree@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

It’s why a good chunk of older folks tend to be on the wealthier side. The poors get forgotten and don’t get to live as long to tell stories about how it really was.

[–] loweffortname@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 16 hours ago

Wait! Are you telling me The Simpsons is satire?

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 182 points 19 hours ago (5 children)
[–] homura1650@lemmy.world 43 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Wow. Those wings sure get hit a lot. They should really make sure they ar well armored.

/s

[–] bold_atlas@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

This is actually a Japanese WWII psyops paint scheme that made one Japanese plane look like dozens.

[–] Alcoholicorn@mander.xyz 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

And also trick americans into thinking the war is over.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 1 points 31 minutes ago

I thought it was to trick Americans into rejecting chicken pox vaccines.

[–] Hayduke@lemmy.world 33 points 18 hours ago
[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 3 points 12 hours ago

Survivor ~~ship~~ plane bias.

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[–] drewaustin@piefed.ca 19 points 14 hours ago (7 children)

Judging by the car in the background, these are not boomers, but gen-xers.

[–] Guru_Meditation_@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

Shhhhh! We don't exist. Remember?!

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[–] CH3DD4R_G0BL1N@sh.itjust.works 10 points 13 hours ago

See also: the far too common news report of parents being charged with crimes for letting their children play in the yard or walk to stores.

[–] GR4CELESS@lemmy.zip 3 points 10 hours ago

Whoa Max Dubler mentioned! I used to ride longboards and this guy was one of the only openly gay people in the major leagues, as it were. Although I think a lot of us turned out not to be so straight or cis after all 😅

[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 29 points 16 hours ago

A lot of them didn’t. They were also murdered, raped, and kidnapped at a tragic rate.

[–] Reality_Suit@lemmy.world 90 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (6 children)

As I grew older, I started complaining about "the youth," as in all the ridiculous stuff I would see online. And then it hit me as the conversation began about how we all did stuff like this as kids. We just weren't publishing it online for all to see and become permanent. So I've learned even more that if someone or something isn't hurting me or anyone else, I need to shut the fuck up and mind my own god damned business.

Moral of the story: I don't care how much you don't like it. If you or anyone else is not being harmed, then shut the fuck up and mind your own god damned business.

Thank you

[–] fahfahfahfah@lemmy.billiam.net 46 points 19 hours ago (7 children)

I’ve been practically melting my brain trying to reconcile the thoughts “we said dumb shit as kids” and “holy fuck if I hear the world ‘skibidi’ one more time I’m going to lose my mind”

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 24 points 18 hours ago (5 children)

I’ve just taken to explaining in detail why I think skibidi is so cool and why they’re right to use it. “Wow, you adopted a word from the internet? When I was a kid, no one had the internet besides the government. You know, the spread of information and global homogenization of vernacular is such a fascinating thing that your generation is part of…” and so on. If they can cause me agony with their verbal garbage after I ask them to chill, I can reply in kind.

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[–] faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 11 points 16 hours ago

Skibidi is hilarious in a sad kafka-esque way. I'm a millennial, and remember enjoying Scatman John as a kid, and the adults complained about it being gibberish.

Now I'm an adult and watching adults complain that Scatman John is gibberish. It's a little surreal.

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[–] gizmonicus@sh.itjust.works 8 points 16 hours ago

I for one am really glad none of the stupid shit I said as a kid is still around. I was a complete dumbass, to the bone. If I saw a post from past me, I would be so triggered.

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[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 36 points 17 hours ago

"No fear" and then being afraid of the slightest change like just not being aggressive towards LGBT...

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 19 points 16 hours ago

there's a lady around the corner who complains about hoodlums playing their music too loud out of their cars and blah blah blah. that's all me on my bicycle, i started when i heard her complain about children playing.

[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 18 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

The other day I was riding home from work on my bicycle. This being the Netherlands, lots of idiots are on bikes as well.

A bike passes me on the left, with one guy pedalling at a good clip. And a second dude casually standing on the rear of the bike, with his arms crossed. As if he was standing at a bus stop.

Weirdest, most dangerous shit I’ve ever seen on a bicycle. This was a busy street at rush hour no less. I was sure I’d see the guy end up on the pavement, but had to turn off before I could witness the dismount.

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[–] Guidy@lemmy.world 15 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

The only thing about me like this is that, in the last couple of years, people driving around with loud obnoxious cars pisses me off. I'd swear it didn't used to. Now, though, when the night outside my house sounds like a motherfucking speedway because some asshole a half-mile or further away is speeding in his shitbox at midnight or later, it does make me wish the cops would get him.

Then there's the assholes (there are at least two, one is a shitbox pickup the other a motorcycle) whose exhausts are so loud that when they drive past my house they set off a neighbor's car alarm. Mind you, the car alarm NEVER goes off otherwise. Until this bullshit started, I didn't even know they had a car alarm at all. The shit is just that fucking loud.

Back in my day (lol, it's true though) we had overpowered subwoofers and skinny kids were actually damaging their lungs with them. I'd still take that over this stupid "My car is loud as fuck but will never be as powerful or as fast as a fucking nazi tesla. Look at me! Look at meeeeee!" bullshit.

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