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I can't say I don't relate in a way. It was unusual that people ever banded in my favor, and they still technically see me as the odd one out, just in a way where I'm at least good enough to defend under those circumstances (perhaps they were defending more than me, though I'm not going to look a gift horse in the mouth here, and I'm not saying any of this to throw shade). Before I lived where I do, I was in another area with a similar "town" environment but which was very openly selective, once literally caring enough about the school janitor to announce his retirement on the announcements but then do nothing when one of us had our life changed forever due to a car accident. I tend to find myself on the bad side of cliques because of how different I come across and could typically never count on community support. But then circumstances end up surprising everyone, and hard.
What church was this?