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Someone just asked the opposite of this question here and I was wondering if there are cases were you're just not interested in something but you know the community is great nonetheless.

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[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 32 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Smokers. They have decades of being able to strike up an angry conversation in a street with an absolute stranger, whilst never letting it escalate, because, fuckit, brotherhood of smokers.

Plus a healthy appreciation of nature. Sure you can smoke and look at your phone, but you still have to be outside and that means glancing up from time to time to look at the scenery, the night sky, to wave at your neighbours, etc.

Good people smokers, filthy habit.

(Vapers dont count, cos you can't really share a vape concurrently. Also a lot of them take pride in their devices which I find weird. Real smokers have a decent sense of self-hatred at their habit)

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

I miss smoking so much. It really is an awesome habit. Or would be if not for the cancer, COPD, and financial ruin.

[–] tomi000@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Not sure what kind of smokers you meet. The ones I have to deal with blow cancer in my face right next to children, get aggressive when I ask them not to, spit on the floor every 5s, throw their still lit cigs into trash bins or into nature and cant stop coughing on the train.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 4 points 22 hours ago

yeah and I have to say even nice smokers seem to have no issue with flicking their but when they are done. Anytime I see a smoker hold onto their but when there is not some sort of enforcement I am like. That person is the rare saint.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Those are just assholes who happen to smoke

There's some in every crowd.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ah yep, my people. The good ones can cast an indignant parent/kid-free zone up to 15m away. Solitary creatures by nature, they hunt in packs, and if you manage to friend one, you friend them for life.

[–] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Fuck yeah, I miss it. Smokers are my people. Risk takers, nihilists, indulgers, hedonists, adventurers, rebels, fun-havers… but I’ve gotten domesticated and want to live a long and clean life. Sigh.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Same, but it's not really living is it

[–] AugustWest@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Clement Freud said “You don’t live longer, it only seems longer.”

[–] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

It is and it isn’t. My current goals and priorities require as long of a horizon to accomplish them and as much focus as possible. Or do they? if I got back into the risky overdrive mode and accelerated full speed and full joy all at once…

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 day ago

Burn, Burn, Burn by Ronnie Elliott is now stuck in my head.

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Old school vapers at least, ones that still roll their own coils and rewick their rebuildable atomizers, would almost always have a device that they have customized themselves, or gotten a very beautiful custom mod.

Also vaping is a bit different in that you could vape using a device akin to smoking, or you could be vaping up a storm cloud like a shisha or bing would, or anything in between.

It's a personal thing. At least in the opinion if this vaper.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

Oh yeah the vaping crowd is definitely creative, but they don't share with strangers cos they physically can't