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Just haven't gotten any matches although I got back on the apps like a month or so ago
What part of the world are you in?
In my experience, tinder is pretty bad. I don't use facebook so I can't vouch for that one, but I assume it's also bad. I never got a single match on Bumble.
Hinge, I got pretty good results on. Even though they're all owned by the same Match Group, hinge seemed to work better. I could get about a date a week on hinge, as an average guy.
I think it worked better for me because you can send a note when you see someone you like, so if you can write complete sentences you're already a cut above the average guy.
I'm in the northeast of USA. I paid for hinge before but only got a couple matches. It's the most expensive one but offers the most I'd say
I never paid for it out of stubbornness.
Are you writing good messages to potential matches?
On hinge? They weren't creepy or anything
That's good but there's a lot of room between creepy and effective