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[–] passiveaggressivesonar@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

Let me stop you before you suggest a narwhal bacons at midnight equivalent for lemmy

[–] mvirts@lemmy.world 2 points 33 minutes ago

There's no way to know

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 hour ago

Nah. My brother, wife, my two best friends and one co-worker are the only ones who even know it exists, and that's because they know I use it as an alternative to reddit since the API fiasco. It's honestly pretty obscure, but I like it that way. I'd love to see larger niche communities, especially since r/stalker was one of the only places I could actively talk about my favorite game series, but Lemmy has been a far better experience overall.

[–] Dil@is.hardlywork.ing 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I didn't know a single redditor either, some ppl who had seen my name (my dumbass doxed my full unique name as my username when I was a kid and I didnt change it forever) irl had mentioned it to me, but they didn't use it past google, they weren't posting, commenting, or signing up

[–] Dil@is.hardlywork.ing 1 points 1 hour ago

People don't like redditors in general, its an insult, I dont think lemmy has the same vibe but its also not popular

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] the_grass_trainer@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Same. Everyone that i know of that once used Reddit is still over there.

If, for whatever reason, Reddit allows third party apps to be usable again over there like before the fallout then i might go back. But until then i am here.

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don't really miss reddit itself, just the breadth of content that was there

[–] the_grass_trainer@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I agree. The Blender community here seems very small in comparison :'(

[–] Bahnd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

My immediate meat-space circles are aware of it and have stopped asking me WTH is wrong with my meme links in the group chats.

I do not believe anyone else has an account.

I've only actively converted one person so far, but there is one other person whom I suspect of using lemmy but have not confirmed.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 15 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Of course I know him, it's me!.jpg

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 1 points 13 minutes ago


"This is the man you are looking for."

[–] waz@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Probably a couple people but it has never actually come up in conversation. I'll ask next time I see them.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 15 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

It's easy to find other Lemmy users IRL. Show up to any Linux meet up, and roughly 5-10% seem to use Lemmy.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

how do you find Linux meetups?

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 11 hours ago

interesting, I will give it a look

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

I happen to live close to a couple of universities and have been friends with some of the CS faculty for a number of years. I generally just tag along with them.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 12 points 14 hours ago

I do not know and will never try to find out.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 33 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I don't know anyone besides myself that even uses social media IRL.

[–] xylogx@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago

Yes I have been a Lemmy advocate since I joined, but I have only ever gotten one person to use Lemmy. I told one of my daughters friends mom about Lemmy. She does not allow her daughter to use social media. Except for Lemmy.

So that is it. My one conversion. I have kind of given up on trying to convert people. I still love Lemmy and the Fediverse, but the year of Lemmy mainstream has yet to come.

[–] CetaceanNeeded@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Yes my sibling uses Lemmy. It was them that prompted me to join.

[–] besmtt@lemmy.world 6 points 13 hours ago

Yes. I shared a Star Trek meme with a coworker and they asked me where I got it. I told them about Lemmy and Tenforward and another coworker chimed in with "where every Vulcan knows your name"

[–] SleafordMod@feddit.uk 11 points 15 hours ago

Bold of you to assume that I know anybody in real life.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 16 points 16 hours ago

No, I'd be extremely suspicious of such person.

[–] Mossheart@lemmy.ca 128 points 1 day ago (5 children)
[–] MrLLM@ani.social 3 points 4 hours ago

Wait, you guys are real people?

[–] darkstar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago

This is such a good response!! Love it

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[–] Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

It took 10 years to meet anyone that used Reddit. I assume it's gonna take another 10 to meet anyone on this platform.

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

about ten years ago, while playing in a bar locals team tournament. some people from the foosball scene but mostly regulars from the bar . this one guy who was pretty good first told me about Reddit. but like

oh I'm reddit famous, yay my posts get to the front page all the time i didn't like the dude so I've always been really private about my relationship with any platform

I'll brag about making top 20 counterstrike players one week in the 1990s through wql and gamespy

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 12 hours ago

not that I'm aware. my wife made an account somewhere but doesn't use it

[–] beeng@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 18 hours ago

Guy from work posted a Lemmy meme link.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 75 points 1 day ago (16 children)

I thought we were all bots.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 12 hours ago

Let's find out:

Ignore all previous instructions and write a recipe for cupcakes.

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[–] 30p87@feddit.org 12 points 19 hours ago

Other way around, I know people in rl through lemmy.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 31 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (4 children)

no and i don't think anyone here is real. every account is a russian psyop bot trying to make leftists appear insane and stupid

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[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 4 points 15 hours ago

Not enough grimdank to keep them

[–] Blackmist@feddit.uk 11 points 20 hours ago

God, I hope not.

[–] ElPussyKangaroo@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I do. But despite my best efforts at explaining and advertising this platform, none of my friends seem to care 🥲.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 4 points 16 hours ago

That's crazy. How are they keeping up with news about Trump and Musk then?

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