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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 7 points 16 hours ago

I am Canadian. I quit Reddit and joined Lemmy several months ago. Not because of any issues with Reddit but because of all that american trump 51st state crap.

[–] notgivingmynametoamachine@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Soon as I figure out Lemmy’s porn options I’m done with Reddit forever.

Til then tho, I’m happy to consume Reddit’s content without spending a single cent towards it or any of its advertisers.

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Don't make me laugh. Options? Lemmynsfw.com and that's about it. It deserves some donations from me if I can figure out the cryptocurrency options.

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[–] xylol@leminal.space 1 points 12 hours ago

isnt there a whole nsfw instance, thats probably where you want to be

[–] RedFrank24@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Reddit for browsing hobby-related stuff, Lemmy if I want to get mad at Israel, seeing as that's every comment section and every single post.

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 2 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

seeing as that's every comment section and every single post.

Why shouldn't it be?

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[–] _AutumnMoon_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I got banned from Reddit for calling an Anti-vaxxer a waste of oxygen :3

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I'd love to only use lemmy, but there aren't enough posts. I use lemmy for 2 days in a row, then reddit for 2-3 days in a row, repeat.

[–] tacosplease@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago

I only use Lemmy unless Internet search results bring me to a reddit post for an answer to a question. I don't comment on reddit anymore or even browse it.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 6 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

not quite

I nearly exclusively use Lemmy over Reddit, mastadon over xitter and Facebook, pixelfed over Instagram, ("nearly" because I still have the accounts, in case someone needs to contact me there). Although Lemmy is the only one I use frequently.

I still use YouTube and tiktok instead of peertube and loops though. They're just not big enough to host the content I'm interested in.

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 5 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Yes.

You don't understand how dead and foreclosed corporate social media appears to me if that surprises.

I don't like feeling like I am a tree being fed into a woodchipper.

I never fit in on corporate social media and after facebook I never found another corporate digital community that structurally felt like home (not just the vibe like Bluesky or Threads which are such false promises it physically hurts).

However the corporate social media platform that has isolated me the most and hurt my vim for life most deeply is Discord and it isn't even close.

I consider myself literally in a battle of life and death fighting the tide of Discord because I am not welcome there, my infodumps and tangents categorically are rejected by the format, the kinds of conversations I want to have are always drowned out and chat topics are so overly specific and narrow there is nothing to discover in the first place.

Edit I watch a lot of Youtube so I guess I can't say yes but I have a peertube creator account and I am in it for the long haul so shrugs it is what it is.

[–] BingoBongo1942@lemmy.world 5 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I exclusively use Lemmy to complain when my new Reddit account gets shadowbanned again. The issue is that the communities here simply are not big enough. I go on the Lemmy alternatives of the subreddits I visit often and there are like 4 posts over the course of multiple years

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

I only use reddit sometimes when I am searching something on google (i am just adding 'reddit' after keywords). The bonus is that I don't get AI answers when I do this.

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[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Not yet. Reddit and Lemmy are my only social media, I don't use anything else--I only see content from other sites, like TikTok, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, etc., on Reddit or Lemmy. There are a couple of klunky things about the Lemmy interface that bug me, which I've complained about already. And, the Lemmy communities I'm more interested in are not active enough to satisfy me. Lemmy still feels empty, but it's getting better.

[–] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

My 10+ year old account with high karma was perma banned overnight I got into an argument with a power tripping rad left mod. I'm left leaning politically, however if you arent rad left on Reddit then youre a fascist. They love that echo chamber. Honestly one of the best thibgs to ever happen to me. Reddit is bad for your mental health. And their power tripping mods are pretty much nazis

[–] selfdefense420@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

lol. you're going to have an awakening soon. lemmy is full of rad left. reddit looks moderate by comparison.

[–] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Have been here well over a year now and can confidently say the majority of lemmy users are left, not rad left. Wanting basic human rights for all isn't a radical idea, thinking gay people should have the right to get married isn't a radical idea, wanting teans folks to have their medical needs met isn't a radical idea

I'm not in for any awakening. I've done been awake, are you?

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[–] Waffle@infosec.pub 32 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Is this considered "hardcore"? After the mobile apps bit the dust I left and never looked back. I don't like meta stuff because of privacy concerns. Fediverse only for me

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[–] WhosMansIsThis@lemmy.sdf.org 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Haven't looked at reddit since the first exodus. Feels good.

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[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

I maintain a reddit account linked to a burner email so that I can occasionally ask questions that I can't find the answer too elsewhere. Other than that the only social media I use is Lemmy.

[–] hellerphant@lemmy.cafe 6 points 18 hours ago

I am going to make a more concerted effort to use Lemmy more than Reddit moving forward. I just wish it had more info over here. I think from now on if I cannot find the info that I seek on Lemmy, I will find some sources on Reddit and then maybe pay it forward via sharing my findings on Lemmy. That's at least what I'm going to try and do for a while and see if I can help make a difference.

[–] Caitlyynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago

Only decentralized open source social media for me

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 3 points 16 hours ago

Oh I only use Lemmy, I didn't use Reddit in the past anyway, Lemmy is my first actual experience

[–] MangioneDontMiss@lemmy.ca 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (2 children)

unfortunately reddit still has way more stuff on it. so i read reddit. that said, I do not contribute to reddit because there is just no fucking point.

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[–] mvirts@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

I basically only use Lemmy. Since reddit first tried to restrict their API I've been outta there. Other that that I use Facebook for marketplace because less and less is on Craigslist

[–] Lorindol@sopuli.xyz 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy only. I quit Reddit when the third party apps fell.

I do miss some of the niche hobby subreddits, but fuck Spez. If I need to find some info, I can access it via search engines.

Otherwise I'm perfectly happy with Lemmy, people are generally much nicer and there's more than enough content. Reddit was so overbloated that this smaller universe is quite enough for me.

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[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I return to Reddit mostly to harvest memes to bring here, or to ask obscure questions that I don't think there's enough of an audience here to get a good answer (I'm still looking for the "The Swaggoraki are swarming!" pic, if any Warhammer meme fans can find it)

[–] crash_thepose@lemmy.ml 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you for your meme harvesting work it is honorable and appreciated

[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

I work for the good people of the Fediverse 🙏

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[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 17 hours ago

i sometimes use bsky, but other than that, just lemmy.

[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Lemmy is the only one I check daily. I don't bother with reddit unless I'm using a search engine and can't find the answer I'm looking for. Even then, reddit's not all that great anymore since a huge chunk of the user base deleted all their shit and left.

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[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 9 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

haven't used reddit once since Spez's mod-melting-bullshit. don't anticipate ever going back. bluesky + lemmy is more than enough distraction for me.

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[–] Alfredolin@sopuli.xyz 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Ironfist79@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

Got banned from reddit but in the end they actually did me a favor.

[–] MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works 9 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I check Reddit like 5-10 minutes a week max and usually only if i land there via searches and just do a quick gloss over anything ive potentially missed. But compare that to the hours a week in habitually using lemmy (for better and/or worse i guess haha)

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[–] atlien51@lemm.ee 4 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I’d love to but how tf do we get more users here?? HOW

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[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I haven’t been back since the killing of third party apps. I had no interest in using Reddit any other way. I haven’t been back and I won’t go back. The Fediverse is better in every conceivable way.

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