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[–] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works 11 points 1 day ago
[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Cocktail… it sounds stupid as a word to describe an alcoholic drink. Maybe it’s because I’m not a drinker and I just don’t understand 🤷

[–] Pronell@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A peacock's tail is a flourish, something that adds to the whole without detracting.

A cocktail combines spirits with other flavors to make them something else.

I don't really drink cocktails, but thr antiquated term makes sense in a particular context.

Now looking it up, apparently the origin of the term isn't actually known and my interpretation isn't even in the running, but I'm saving this anyway because it's amusing.

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[–] Houseofoliviereu@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hmm... I like that, sorry. But, there is a little history behind that word.

An alcoholic mixed drink, and derived senses you will need to scroll down a bit to get to the alcoholic drink part.

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[–] carbonari_sandwich@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've come to hate "Utilize." It has a decent purpose as "using to the fullest extent," or, "making do with something in a new context."

Instead, I just hear it as a replacement for "use" when someone wants to sound smart.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

"Heh heh... Utilize. 👉👌

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

"y'all" its so wierd how people normalized such a cringe word, and it was originally laughed at because people who often say it dont seem so intelligent.

also the words "academic incest" which is really wierd an cringe, it suppose to describe getting more than 1 degree, usually a grad and a UNDERGRAD In the same university.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Do you say can't or can not?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 8 points 1 day ago (5 children)

The F word that means "a bundle of sticks" used almost exclusively as a homophobic slur.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

With some specific exceptions, for me. If you are one, and you aren't using it against others, it's fine. Like storytelling and describing a conversation, or just even being playful about it. Maybe being at a store with some friends looking at clothes or something, describing yourself and how something looks perhaps? Totally fine in my book. That's our term, we should be able to reclaim it for ourselves.

But someone else who I don't know and can't immediately determine the meaning/context that uses it? Bitch you about to die.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't know. I think reclaiming slurs can be a good thing, (queer, for example), but that one is inherently violent and I always feel uncomfortable when I hear it. Like, there's a reason you didn't write it out in your comment.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Fair. I didn't type it since I don't want to be that guy like 'you mean [word]'. It's very context sensitive yeah, but I think it's okay in the right moment.

[–] Houseofoliviereu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I do agree. That word is harsh to see, to hear. I have never liked it. Even between gays, I don't use it at all.

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[–] CallMeM@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

"literally" and "like"

...because it's literally used like every two words

[–] Houseofoliviereu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Ohh poor "like".... I must admit I use it a lot. Practical word.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Like literally like oh my gawd did you see that basic bitch with last year's iPhone pro max ultra deluxe special edition? I'm totally unfolloeing her on everything

it's literally the day after the release of the new model

[–] Mildetoast@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

“Mouthfeel.” Especially if it’s a food show.

[–] Townlately@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

"Unctuous", especially when overused on those shows...

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago
[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don’t hate it, but apparently they have done polls and often the top result is:

Moist

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago
[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Receive.

I think my grasp of English is pretty good, but this is one of the most common words I misspell on a regular basis. I have no idea why I keep wanting to write "recieve" instead.

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Any misspoken words, said with full confidence that it is correct.

I left him know.

There's a woof in the backyard.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can I (aks) you something?

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That one I hear so much, I'm afraid it will become the new normal way of pronouncing ask. Definitely bugs me!

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh wow! looks like it already has been considered correct, and ask is the new correct way.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

🐺 help I seem to be trapped in some human abomination. I mean, ehem. Woof woof woof woof.

[–] pugsnroses77@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago
[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago
[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Can’t or won’t. Take your pick.

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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Too many to count. A lot of the current slang

Rizz comes close to the top of the list

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

pulchritudinous

it's an incredibly ugly word

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (5 children)

"Walkie-Talkie"

Its a "Handheld Transceiver" ffs, who the fuck gave it such a stupid name lmfao

Is a Telephone a "Chit-y-Chat-y"? A computer a "Beep-ie-Boop-ie"?

[–] Houseofoliviereu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

If you want to go deeper about that word:

The earliest known use of the noun walkie-talkie is in the 1930s.

OED's earliest evidence for walkie-talkie is from 1939, in the San Antonio Express-News (San Antonio, Texas).

walkie-talkie

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