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I recognize appreciating cool machines, I really do. I've just never been able to wrap my head around being a car guy. Spending huge chunks of change on a car, consistently modifying it, watching car shows all the time. I just dont get it. What's the big draw for you?

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Driving is fun. Driving events are even more fun. It gets me out of the house even on rainy crappy days.

I like Driving scenic roads.

I love mechanical things that give feedback. Since everything like that has been removed now because of technology ( no vcrs. No reel to reels, no projectors. Heck mosy people type on an ipad now so keyboards are becomibg less of a thing for normal people) its one of the last remaining visceral mechanical experiences.

It also helps i mostly only drive manual rwd cars.

Now do I like traffic or ever expanding suburban nightmare roads designed for Karen that drives her $100k escalade around? No. Ban that shit.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cars are like big, greasy legos

[–] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That are rusted together and impossible to detach

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 1 points 1 day ago

That is also true

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

After working on them professionally I stopped liking them. I don't even really like driving anymore. Everything about a car is a scam.

[–] BigPotato@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I always say "I love driving which is why I hate driving anywhere." I would love to have a fleet of vehicles I could really drive but laws, traffic, maintenance, etc. Driving isn't fun in the same way other things are because you need a lot of space or a lot of money to enjoy it. Drawing? I can do that with a No. 2 I swiped from IKEA. Can't exactly take my commuter to Monza without running up a bill.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can you elaborate on the scam part? I have my own ideas, but I don't work on them professionally.

[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

They're built so that they can't easily be repaired cheaply so that you have to buy a new one. The dealership makes all their money off of predatory financing. They pay mechanics on "flat rate" so there's a gross incentive to recommend work that isn't necessary. Then there's the insurance industry. Then of course police use minor driving infractions to hassle people and generate revenue. The whole industry could just not exist and the world would be better for it. People spend half their salary just to have a car, it's ridiculous.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Ah. Yeah, I've run into some issues where I gladly paid to have it repaired, I sure as hell wasn't doing it. I do most of my own stuff, so the repair prices always shock me. $1700 bucks to replace two front struts and 2 rear shocks on a 3rd gen Ford escape. I found a second mechanic that did them with my parts (OEM from rockauto, nothing fancy) plus top engine mount for $1200 which was more reasonable to me. The struts required the whole lower knuckle to come out, not just bolts like normal. If I had a garage, maybe, but hard for me to do in a parking lot.

I've always felt like insurance was a scam, it's "required" and fucks you every which way.

And I absolutely hate cops lol.

I thought we were just talking about automobiles haha.

Seeing new car videos makes me want to drive mine until the wheels fall off then I'll just replace the wheel hubs 🤣

My goal is to pretty much put all my money into older cars because all the new ones besides being rolling spyware are also impossible to work on.

Cars really were better in ye olden days(as kids would think the 90s are). 1990-2005 was the perfect spot for cars.

This isn't the cars fault. Its capitalism my friend.

[–] tasankovasara@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 day ago

Here's one who always liked customising the daily driver computers - Sway, custom configs, painting the laptop cover with very permanent enamel paint. Reasons are to make it run reliably, serving my preferences and looking nice and cared for.

Similar reasons apply with the car and motorcycle, only with the car it's not cheap fun (bike stuff is actually very reasonably priced). But I figured since I get paid every month, I'm going to use money on what sparks joy. And I'm keeping it sensible, only one car and bike at a time :}

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What I don't understand is how you could not be into cars. There are few things more thrilling than driving a proper sports car the way it was designed to be driven.

It surely doesn't hurt that I'm a geek, so I'm naturally attracted to anything electronic or mechanical. The inner workings of a vehicle are beyond fascinating.

If you don't enjoy driving, part of it might have to be due to the fact that you've only ever been behind the wheel of boring commuter cars. Take a manual Supra or 400Z for a test drive sometime, and tell me it doesn't change your opinion of cars. If that doesn't work for you, then I don't know what to tell you. To each their own.

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Sitting behind the wheel of something belching gas that requires full concentration just isn't that interesting. Biking is a much more enjoyable activity.

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If cars could just be a hobby where I go to car shows and appreciate the effort people put into making old cars look nice, or drive around curvy back roads with the top down, or learn about the intricacies of ignition timing, they'd be great.

Everything wrong with cars is about how they are integrated into society at large. They should not be the default transportation option. They're not a hobby at that point, but a mandate. The common NIMBY refrain against walkable/bikable infrastructure of "you're taking away my freedom to drive a car" is pants on head stupid.

This seems to be an increasingly common sentiment among car enthusiasts. Being an enthusiast and agreeing that FuckCars has it 95% correct are not the mutually exclusive opinions they appear to be.

[–] PlexSheep@infosec.pub 1 points 1 day ago

This. Can't unser cars making cities worse. So much wasted space on parking, dangerous to other people, etc.

But I do kind of get vroom vroom machine fast and strong.

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What are your thoughts on EV and Hydrogen-powered sports cars? They don't exist (yet), but if they did, would that help change your mind?

[–] ILoveUnions@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

No. I prefer my appliances functional ;sports cars exchange function for form. Morehowever, the wasted created per is still disproportionate to what is reasonable

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (7 children)

And there's your problem, you see cars as an appliance.

Why even bother driving if you're going to have that attitude? Just take public transport if you really hate cars that much.

[–] D_C@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Cars are an appliance. And I have two, a daily and a special.
Both are appliances.

I have two superbikes. They are useless for anything other than being shiny, making noise, and putting a smile on my face. They are also just appliances.

I have a mountain bike and an eMTB. I have fun on them and they keep me fit but, guess what...? Yep, appliances!

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[–] sbf@feddit.org 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Motor vehicles are one of the very few things in this world that are simultaneously beautiful, useful, and fascinating

Old ones were literally rolling art.

See, Lamborghini miura

[–] CaptDust@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Personally it's the apperciation of design, craftsmanship, the mechanics, and the fun that cars can create. Modification is a form of self expression for me. Building and racing machines that dominate their rivals scratches a competitive itch. Then there's the primal enjoyment of having something powerful as a car under your direct command that's intoxicating.

And of course watching shows for inspiration, or entertainment watching others achieve what I personally cannot.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The competition aspect makes alot of sense. Especially when I consider both the preparation and execution go into it. I think if I was the builder I'd HAVE to be the driver/racer too though.

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[–] Chrysanthemum@piefed.social 16 points 2 days ago

Childhood.

Hi, car gal here with other car gal friends. My uncle (mechanic) was my main babysitter when I was a kid. I used to watch him overhaul a clutch as he said each procedure out loud to see if I was paying attention and encouraged me to ask questions.

He would take me and my cousins to car shows, tire shops and car dealerships (when they’re closed). We learned to appreciate different types of vehicles and languages from him; it’s kinda hard to read a manual if you don’t know German.Also, my uncle kept plenty of Legos and Matchbox cars in his shop for us to play with – they were my favorite toys.

Then one day, I discovered boys.

Oil changes and smelling like Lava soap with a hint of sweat weren’t my thing anymore. My first purchase was with my first boyfriend, we bought a beat up old boat for $500.

Today, I still prefer cars with the best turning radius. I will never underestimate an I4 or choose a V6 over it without careful consideration; I do love being behind the wheel of an I6. Some people will pay an extra $4,000 for Vrooom (PSE system) while others like me would rather spend the money on Kevlar tires and strict scheduled maintenance.

Different strokes for different folks – that’s what personalization is about.

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 day ago

I'm not. I don't drive and never want to drive. I hate it.

[–] NinjaTurtle@feddit.online 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Its a pretty broad question, like asking why you like video games or shows. Different people like different aspects of cars. Some use cars as a canvas to shape their car in a specific way that expresses their tastes. Others for their mechanical abilities.

Personally I like the driving experience. I appreciate a built up car, more then just a car bought with huge chunks of money. It shows more effort and personality of the owner tuning their car for a specific purpose. I also like a nice show car. Its like an art piece.

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[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Not a car guy, but it makes more sense to me than people who collect expensive watches. At least a car is fun to drive and goes vroom. A rolex is just some jewelery for guys.

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

I don’t collect watches, but I appreciate really well designed mechanical/analog devices. I think spending money on brand names is stupid, but I honestly would love an intricate self winding watch.

Not a watch, but check out the mechanics in this cassette player. I love anything like this.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hell yes, this is art. Just like how to me some cars are art (240z with itbs....hnnnng).

Most cars are boring toasters that society is over reliant on. I myself dont own a boring car since i enjoy driving so I can't speak to that.

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My new rule for myself is everything I bring into my house has to be art. I got this beautiful hand made cutting board the other day. Anything can be art, and it doesn’t all have to be pricy. I threw some pathos I propagated into a soup can the other day. Boom art!

This is mostly me trying to cope with all the AI slop that is slowly eating digital and physical art forms. For me, art is anything human made, and I want to surround myself with it.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Im the same way.

Everything is losing its human and visceral-Ness. Im convinced its a big reason there's so much depression- people dont feel any more.

Yeah, its sad the age of any computer produced art (graphics, electronic music, coding) is over because of corpo ai slop. But all the more reason to go outside and build something real in the workshop or put on a folk concert.

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yeah. Though I don't think coding will be tapped out for awhile. I'm a little biasses as that's what I do for work. Tech Twitter is full of people claiming AI is going to replace engineers. I work on a very successful team of very talented engineers, and if I told them AI is going to replace them, they would laugh. But I would be lying if said I didn't fantasize about switching to a job where I get to build something with my hands.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 22 hours ago

Yeah i agree for good coding and amy true art it will take a while if ever, for ai to replace that. At least not corpo slop llm. Real machine learning, sure, that may advance a lot. Or agi. If that ever actually happens.

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

that's a cool hobby! I used to love watching the parts of my tape deck move as a kid. Te parts clunking into pace, the gentle pace of the rotation. That's a very nice player you've got!

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[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Just another form of expression and status. Think of it like fashion. We “wear” our cars for a big chunk of our lives.

[–] JoshuaFalken@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Do you have a long commute or take road trips often? I ask because I used to have an hour commute. I enjoyed my car, but to your example, I enjoyed it only when I 'wore' it.

After I realised I didn't enjoy the car when I wasn't driving it, I realised something else. 90% of it's life, 85% of my waking life, and 95% of my time away from work, it was just sitting somewhere waiting to driven again - not being 'worn'. So I sold it and got something much cheaper in every way; to purchase, maintain, insure, refuel, etc.

Once I'd downgraded, it was funny to me how many people I knew were asking me if I were okay, as if I lost the nice car in a divorce or something haha.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah I used to have a long commute, and had a Q50. I was leasing my car so didn’t want to take it to the track, nor did I have the money at the time to race it, so it was just vehicle to get me around. Definitely had fun with it, but when I started working from home it just sat there a lot. Got an old SUV for other purposes and had to run it just so the battery didn’t die. Eventually sold it for a newer SUV.

I get it tho. Don’t need a fancy car. Funny people associate downgrading your car with hard times. I wish my new car was paid off, but I use every bit of it.

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[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I’ve been into cars as art from the moment I saw a Lamborghini. I view the mechanical work/modifications as a means to an end rather than the fun part.

I’ve not done a ton of performance upgrades, but I’ve upgraded my clutch to a ceramic and now, every time I shift, I get a more satisfying feel. It’s even better knowing I made that improvement myself.

Most of it comes down to the sense of pride and accomplishment I get from the finished result.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The mechanical feel is a big part for me.

Driving a rental 2025 legacy, made me hate cars in about 30 seconds. So if thats your car experience i see why people hate it.

Driving a 99 miata: permanent smile.

[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 23 hours ago

Acceptable!!

I do like the nb the best. The na pop-ups are amazing, but the nb is the better car overall to me. Drove an ND, hated it lol. Granted the ND was an auto but still

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