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[–] tourist@lemmy.world 36 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (7 children)

I've been on an AWS project for about a month now

And, my god, there is so much to be infuriated by.

My first revelation was that there is no payment killswitch. E.g. if I spend more than X dollars, stop all my services and don't charge me anymore. Nope sorry can't do that

You can set "Budget alerts" but holy fuck, the emails do not arrive anywhere near reasonably on time

$0.40 per secret stored, billed monthly. Imagine the keys for every lock in your apartment showing up as charges on your rent invoice.

With every managed service, it feels like the setup menus are just a game of minesweeper, where if you don't know any better, you might accidentally cost your organization $500 per hour and not know until the next day when the cost dashboard updates.

Maybe it's just because I'm new to it, but apparently, this kind of shit is rampant among most cloud providers.

Biggest companies in the world still need to pickpocket their customers and that's somehow okay

[–] Nighed@feddit.uk 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Azure (number 2 in the industry I think?) has budget kill switches.

[–] poopkins@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

This gives me flashbacks (traumas?) of a past job where I need to run AWS services to host an online media event. After it concluded and we were shutting things down, we kept getting invoices. Find the obscure menu option for one of the services that was still running, each service having its own interface and unique ways of making it extremely obscure.

I remember some services didn't even have a way of technically shutting it down, just an option to unassign instances. Only then was it possible to set the number of instances to zero, but you had to do it for like 15 regions individually. I honestly can't remember the details, but it left such a sour taste in my mouth that I swore to never use AWS again.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Before the cloud it was so hard to get a budget for anything, even necessary yearly upgrades. Sometimes I would have to scrap the least important server when a component in a more important one died. Then the cloud came along and suddenly we had so much money to spend! But now it was so hard to track who spent it, what projects it was spent on, and how we could dial it down. SMH. Cloud computing can be so ridiculous.

[–] EvenOdds@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 days ago

Agreed, AWS make pricing deliberately difficult to control.

Check out budget actions, you can set that to stop EC2s on certain thresholds. Not perfects but can help. Also if you can use parameter store instead of secrets manager, you can save a bunch of money there too.

[–] skuzz@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 4 days ago

I only decided to set up a personal AWS for some minor things after having worked on it at employers for many years, after watching employers accidentally spend $3000 a day or $1 million a month or $35,000 in error. Cloud is the devil, bring back servers. One flat piece of hardware you can do whatever with...but even that's not sacred. If you use hosted servers, the hosts often still charge for ingress/egress and other things now, so you still fall into traps if not careful. Simpler though.

So I guess, storing your own server in your office is the way to go, but then the ISP issues...

Let us all just go back to paper, actually.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Biggest companies in the world still need to pickpocket their customers and that's somehow okay

While small to medium hosters are usually okay.

[–] tourist@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I didn't mean to imply that smaller companies should have free reign oops

Or are you saying that those hosters are generally less predatory?

I'm shit at language, I'm shit at my job, I legit don't know

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Or are you saying that those hosters are generally less predatory?

Yes, this.

I'm shit at language, I'm shit at my job, I legit don't know

All good. Everybody sucks in their own ways. And those that don't are good at pretending. No need to beat yourself up.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 0 points 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

it feels like the setup menus are just a game of minesweeper

..and that turns it into a skills game vs a bad gamble.

And people who don't wanna hire pros to manage their on-prem think they can maybe, just maybe, win that skill game.

And that's how casinos that don't launder their games of chance through clowd sign-ups also leverage dunning-kruger for profit.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 13 points 4 days ago

Sign up now!

"Yes!" "Maybe later!"

Fuck your asshole with barbed wire.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

While that’s certainly annoying, valkey IS the better option.

[–] passepartout@feddit.org 13 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It's a tale as old as software development itself: Fuck around with your license, find out by getting replaced by a fork.

Although Redis came back and reversed the relicensing one year later lol:

https://dirkriehle.com/2025/05/03/re-relicensing-to-open-source-explained/

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Can you permanently zap it with uBlock?

[–] deadcream@sopuli.xyz 14 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Often those sites randomly generate ids and classes, so it will work only once.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 5 days ago

I hate that.

[–] eager_eagle@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

That usually works IME, you just need to drag the sliders to pick a more general selector than an ID or specific class

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You can use pseudo classes like div:nth-child(1) or xpath to work around it.

[–] deadcream@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 days ago

That sounds too fragile

[–] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago

This drives me up the wall, anywhere I encounter it. Bastards.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Check to see how it's handling that 2 weeks maybe you can change it to 2000000 weeks

[–] Railcar8095@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Change to -2 if possible

[–] toe@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Sorry, it’ll be back to the regular “Remind me later” when our UX person gets back from leave. The engineer who was made to do this last minute has been sacked and replaced by three TPMs and a mop. The mop is the star performer so far.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 3 points 5 days ago

aws-cli + cloud formation and never worry about it again.