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[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 4 days ago

Light snoring/heavy breathing at the beginning??? Not sure, but it's not the weirdest question I've seen.

 

I've been dating my girlfriend since 2023 and I love her so much! <3 I recently started dating my boyfriend and I'm gonna possibly get him a binder because he himself can't get one due to his family.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 days ago

I feel like you should stay with her, set a boundary, and talk about how you feel. If she continues to disrespect gay people, though, break up.

 

I do, a sister. She just turned 15 last month :)

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

“Proud to be an American 🇺🇸” “Trump is a good guy! My dad told me!” Was how I acted 😭

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 week ago

She sounds horrible, I’m sorry you have to deal with that

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Still homophobia IMO...

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Whether she realizes it or not, that is homophobic in my opinion. I might be too sensitive, but yeah. She might not be consciously trying to or realizing it, but I feel like she should work on her reactions. I have heard of queer people who don't like seeing it everywhere, and it could be anywhere from internalized homophobia to just not wanting special treatment, but I feel like she should work on that because it sounds a LOT like homophobic popular girls' reactions in my old high school...

 

We’re both FtM and we’re soooo cool!!! He actually asked me out and I said yes, making sure it was okay with my girlfriend first!

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I will be patient with this one queer teen I knew even if they bullied me. She might not know better but she thinks she's one of the "good lesbians". And that LGBTQ+ people are evil with an "agenda". I don't talk to her anymore because she blocked me and thinks that Latinos are evil and that they're all illegal. What a shame, her grandma is actually Korean and came to the U.S.

But yeah, I hope she changes her ways.

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Don't delete it! I love hearing others' perspectives!

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

Thank you so much! :D

[–] atheqtpie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you so much! I actually knew a queer MAGA person who was very "I'm one of the good lesbians" and also anti-hormones for anyone, even adults.

 

I grew up around older adults for most of my life, in a very "patriotic" community. In fact, my mom used to be centrist and my dad, right-of-center.

I was a cisgender heterosexual girl. Before I myself came out as pan, I really had the mindset of "LGBTQ+ people don't deserve representation". The thing is, I didn't really care what people did, but I didn't think it had to be announced everywhere. I didn't think representation was necessary, and I was kind of ignorant to the injustice LGBTQ+ people face. I thought "Oh, they already have rights, gay marriage has already been legalized, why do they care so much?"

I doubted climate change.

Keep in mind that my grandparents are part-Italian. My grandpa was half-Italian and came from Northern Italy, so I thought just because my grandpa came here legally, all immigrants could afford to do that.

Well, after a while, I started to become friends with other queer and trans people, and it opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. I no longer supported Trump. I started respecting other people more and later found my identity along the way as a genderfluid, left-leaning transmasc person.

I changed quite early in life, thankfully. I changed at age 13, which is better than being like 73, but at least it's a change either way.

I thought being patriotic didn't mean to make America actually better for people, but to just defend everything it did and everything Trump did. I even wore MAGA merch, and I realize how stupid that was now, LMAO.

 

crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/32668848

I don't even know why she did this, maybe she really did misinterpret or maybe she made this up for whatever reason. I have dealt with some really interesting teachers in middle school and in sophomore year.

This teacher either left or got fired, but the bell rang. I (skipped kindergarten, was 14 years old) was talking about watching a movie with my friend.

All of a sudden, the teacher told me to come see her before we walked to the buses.

She said she heard me say that I was going to "talk to my 19-year-old boyfriend Russell" and that she was worried about me.

She then said she looked through my phone, as I left my backpack in the special education room, and she said she saw a contact named "Russell" (I do not have a contact named that).

She then called my parents and my aunt and uncle found out because my dad told them.

My aunt never really liked me, but she wouldn't stop talking about how the teacher never lies and that I probably do have a 19-year-old boyfriend.

I never spoke to any 19-year-olds named Russell, or any 19-year-olds at that, or any Russells, let alone date any.

 

I don't even know why she did this, maybe she really did misinterpret or maybe she made this up for whatever reason. I have dealt with some really interesting teachers in middle school and in sophomore year.

This teacher either left or got fired, but the bell rang. I (skipped kindergarten, was 14 years old) was talking about watching a movie with my friend.

All of a sudden, the teacher told me to come see her before we walked to the buses.

She said she heard me say that I was going to "talk to my 19-year-old boyfriend Russell" and that she was worried about me.

She then said she looked through my phone, as I left my backpack in the special education room, and she said she saw a contact named "Russell" (I do not have a contact named that).

She then called my parents and my aunt and uncle found out because my dad told them.

My aunt never really liked me, but she wouldn't stop talking about how the teacher never lies and that I probably do have a 19-year-old boyfriend.

I never spoke to any 19-year-olds named Russell, or any 19-year-olds at that, or any Russells, let alone date any.

 

In my senior year, before I came out as trans, I took Spanish class. I was embarrassed, so I said “Estoy embarazada” which means “I’m pregnant”, NOT “I’m embarrassed”.

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What Fediverse software would I like if I previously was a fan of TikTok and Facebook? Friendica perhaps? What else?

 

My friend and I vividly remember a scene with Gomez/Gomez and Morticia waiting for Fester to wake up and staring over him while he sleeps. Gomez monologues to himself. Does this happen in the movie, Addams Family fans? Or did our brains make this up?

 

My friend and I vividly remember a scene with Gomez/Gomez and Morticia waiting for Fester to wake up and staring over him while he sleeps. Gomez monologues to himself. Does this happen in the movie, Addams Family fans? Or did our brains make this up?

 

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